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Hello darkness my old friend.
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I should be damn near happy right now. Instead I am sitting here, wanting to cry my eyes out. Today started lower than yesterday and is rapidly going down hill. I can't even force myself to smile. Alternately all I can feel is an overwhelming despair or a great numbness, like a bubble around me that prevents me from feeling anything. THere should be something in between shouldn't there?
I am broken. I don't have the inbetween ground. One minute I am ecstatic and hopeful, the next i'm sobbing in the bathroom (not exaggerating, this litterally happened to me in the span of three minutes). I don't even know what to tell people when they ask how i'm going because it could change any few minutes.
I just feel so out of control. I don't know what is going on inside my own head. I can't even control that. I want desperately to get some measure of control back. Something, anywhere.
The only way I know to get control is self harm or a much more permanent solution. Neither of which I want but I don't know how else to go on.
I have nothing left.
GA
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Hi GA
I'm sorry I haven't responded to you before. Not sure how I missed you.
I'm so so so glad you got a good sleep! I know totally what you mean about sleep feeling alien. I too have experienced no sleep for reasons I'm not ready to post about but I know how much it messes with your head!!
Nice to meet you
What are you up to tonight?
Cheers and many hugs Amamas
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I had no plans until about an hour ago. I think I am at the high point of depression, or sleep is doing brilliant things to my head so I threw together a family NYE celbration at my house and am going out with my sister this afternoon.
If you read my other post, SOS you'll know how mch of a change this is. I can only hope this manic period lasts long enough til they go home. I can crash then, sleep another 12 hours if need be.
My family will have a good times, some good memories and my husband will have anight to truly let loose and relax after weeks of watching me.
GA
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Hey GA
I am so HAPPY for you!! I hope it all goes really well!
I'll be thinking of you all partying on down!!!
Happy New Year!!!
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Hi GA
That was so awesome to read of your being able to get some well earned sleep. And then the resultant effects that gave you to throw a party. That was brilliant to read.
I so hope it all went really well for you ... and you're probably in the land of nod right now ... I hope so, and that you're having some really pleasant dreams.
Would love to hear how it all went and more importantly, how you got through and how you are now, when you're next on line.
Cheers
Neil
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dear GA, when we try and do a lot of activities while in depression, you just have to be very careful as to how much you actually do, simply because when you force yourself, and this could be for many reasons, you may eventually fall into a heap.
It is good and I admire you for doing this, but please be careful, because it has to be by choose and not any pressure.
Another point I would like to make and this is we go and see our psych. and come out thinking that nothing has happened, well this maybe true, but what I want to say is that I say my psychologist for 20 years and a large amount of that time nothing seemed to be working, and I was still depressed, but I stayed with her because I liked her, she was easy to talk to, and she could remember all the names I had dropped on her lap.
So in other words don't drop your psych if you like them, because eventually it will click, and you could go from one psych to another and this unsettles your mind, and makes you anxious. L Geoff. x
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Hi GA
I am so happy and proud of you. I am so glad you had a really good night sleep.
To see where you were at your very first message on here to yesterday's - that's an improvement. Small steps is good,
Pls take care, thinking of you
Jo xx
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I still can't sleep without chemical aid which worries me still. I try all the natural things first but it just....doesn't happen. By the same token I am grateful to them because I do feel better with sleep. Even if it is just more able to express what i feel, since I still don't have control over what I feel.
Don't think that I forced myself yesterday. I was really, honestly full of the energy to do those things and wanted them. Honest to goodness wanted to be around people. THIS NEVER HAPPENS. My family no less. We didn't talk about the issues, we just hung out you know? And that was all I needed.
I feel bad for my husband in all this, dealing with the yo yo of moods and having to do most of the work for the party. I feel like I used him you know. When I asked him this morning what he wanted to do today his only response was to say that he wanted to get to a point where he didn't have to worry about taking a nap and to wake up finding i'd absconded with a bottle of alcohol.
Less sleep, only about 7 hours last night and certain lethargy today. Not really depresssed, or sad, just tired and wanting to stay inside and play some games by myself.
We have plans in place though. A set night time ritual to help me sleep and a set time by which if I am not tried enough to fall asleep, I take a sleeping pill. Moreover we have aplan of how to do more exercise and goals for the next week.
I am not at the point of planning beyond tomorrow. Sometimes I can't even plan for today. I certainly don't know what this year is going to be like. If I'm going to make the year.
But I have today and for now that's enough.
GA
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Hi GA
You have lots of strength to fight this. And you will get through this. It is good that you are getting some sleep and it doesn't matter for now that you are taking sleeping tablets.
Good to hear you have plans in place and plans for more exercise in the next week. That is really good. Don't worry about planning tomorrow just plan day by day as you wake up; even if its hr by hr. And enjoy the day, enjoy the moment.
You know you have an amazing husband, a supportive husband who not only worries about you but loves you.
So for now, just enjoy each moment, take little steps to see the light. You are a brave person.
Jo xx
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