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Grief, Loss and Depression all at once, losing too much weight but just have no motivation to eat or do anything
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Hi, welcome
I dont want to sound like I'm downplaying your sitauation at all, but these sorts of life lessons is what makes us stronger and until we have gone throught this (like committing so much time and personal discussion with one person for so long) you wouldnt have learnt that lesson until it has occured.
It is not you fault. That is clear- you trusted and got your heart broken.
So what is the greatest remedy on earth for this grief/dissappointment? Time. You cant rush time nor buy it, it is a remedy that allows the topic to drift away at its own pace. The only thing that cant make you feel better for short periods is distraction- plough your mind into sports, hobbies, friends, family, travel and so on.
Plese google the following
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TonyWK
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Hi HanARGHH,
Thank you for bringing such positive news to the forums - at great personal cost, you have chosen the higher path in not standing for deception. Please don't take it out on yourself as you are the innocent victim here.
I respect and admire you for your actions in considering the SO. Take comfort in your integrity and move forward with confidence - you understand the essence of true friendships/relationships and this will put you in good stead for finding a recipient worthy of your affections.
Regards,
t.
