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The Transcendent Rainbow Cafe - social space for LGBTI members

Paul
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

It would be so great to have a thread here where we can chat about almost anything. We can have fun, tell jokes, share stories, you name it!

There's a "BB Cafe" thread in the general area where lots of people chat daily and have established some nice light hearted conversations, it's treated as if it's a real cafe, there's even virtual baked goods and coffee!

Let's create a chat here for anyone to join, in particular the GLBTIQ community to let their collective hair down and chill out. It's a safe space to be yourself.

We just need a name 🙂

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Raynor
Community Member

I'm so slow back to here. I'm sorry. I got sick in the land of castles, summer and polite greetings, and that combined with the fact that I started new meds 3 days before I left, meant it kind of dumped on me. But now I'm home 🙂 The best thing about going away is coming home. I'm just now really hoping not to have to leave again anytime in the near or distant future.

Dear Raynor, MsP and Danny; (shout out to those MIA and people reading too)

Glad you're home in good spirits Rayne; yes, coming home is comfortable compared. So has the new med's regime kicked in yet? Hope so hun...hmm...castles, Summer and polite; Scotland? Or there-about? Wondering if you'd join us for snacks and coffee later?

MsP...Danny and I agree that cheesecake is definitely the way to go when it comes to snacking. My fave's salted caramel swirls with a thin biscuit base; or white chocolate and raspberries on top. Hmm...saliva build up in mouth. I wish I could write that sound Homer Simpson makes when he thinks of pork. he he

Danny boy...thinking of you my sweet; would love to visit an airforce base with you on open day watching the guys and gals 2ing and froing in their uniforms. Mmm...Richard Gere in Officer and a Gentleman. 🙂 Maybe Goldie Hawn too. 🙂

Only 3 sleeps till my retreat holiday! Taking my poota for late evening BB catch-ups.

Love to all...

Sara xo

Hey Sara, I would love to spend the day with you at the airforce base. I would be worried about self combustion from the tension. Like a beautiful lotus flower I can be admired but provide no suckle lol.... I think it's almost every gay mans dream to be swept off there feet and Carried out in the arms of a handsome officer. Private Benjamin is one of my favourite movies I love the ending how she just walks away. Thats what I love about that movie it taught me that. I can't wait to hear all about your holiday I think if you enjoyed it I would to. I'm working on being able to let people touch me when someone want to hug and kiss me goodbye or hello I go into panic even though I know it's safe wish I didn't feel this way. Danny...

Oh Danny;

I feel for you my sweet. I wrote some stuff about 'touch' on my thread yesterday. If I ever get an opportunity to hug you, (will ask permission first of course) I'll ever so gently hold your hand instead, then carefully place my small soft hands at the top of each arm and tell you it's ok; I understand.

I'm not an officer or a gentleman, but I know kindness and the value of true and genuine affection. You're in safe hands with me...

Sara xo

MsPurple
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

I have been eating ok the last few days but today all I wanted was pizza for dinner. SO I got pizza for dinner. It was awesome. Even have enough leftovers for you guys 🙂

I have started brick training (riding followed by running straight after). I am getting better at running but can't really go faster than 10km/h

Raynor
Community Member
Quiet here. How is everyone?

MsPurple
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

I was just thinking the same thing!

I'm good. In Melbourne for an extended weekend which is lovely. If it wasn't so cold here I probably could have only packed carry on the plane, but had to pack extra jackets and warm clothes

I'm excited for tomorrow night because I'm going out with one of my bff and she is wanting to go to a gay bar. I haven't really been to one with someone that knows I'm bi so it should be fun

What about yourself, you up to much Raynor?

Hey Sara, haven't heard from you, so I'm imagining you're feeling well and enjoying yourself. I hope you're being treated well and being totally pampered you deserve that and so much more. You're kind words to me mean more to me than you realise. Danny...

Hello Ms Purple, So proud of you for trying so hard at everything you do. I'm glad you had the pizza tells me you are a smart girl who's going places and you're not affected by all the rubbish girls put themselves through. I'm gonna start to try and go for a run/walk now you have inspired me. Danny...

Hey Raynor, I'm so jealous of this job of yours taking you around the world. You must be intelligent wish I was but unfortunately with everything that has happened to me my brain doesn't function. How's things going for you with your psychologist ??.. Danny.