dear Chonty, please you mustn't feel as though you have leprosy, although at a young age I thought that I was stupid, strange and out of the ordinary, because back in those antiquated days it wasn't really recognised as OCD and that's why I think Dad never understood it nor anyone else.
I really understand why your boyfriend is having trouble, but it's no different than him having some permanent injury which he may be embarrassed about.
You could ask your mum to read some information on OCD before you tell her, because it's an enormous task for you to have to do.
How old are you and do you remember any previous family members who may have had it as well, as it's easy to pick up if you see someone else doing these habits, and I'm sure they feel strange themselves, but you're not, I'm not, and I don't judge myself to be inferior, because no one's perfect.
When it gets too much I may go into my room by myself and do what I have to do, but I still hide it and after 54 years I've had enough practice.
I don't think that your mum will be totally upset, maybe a little surprised, but it's something that has to be learnt that we are still the person we are.
My eldest son has also got, but he doesn't take medication, but I do, and this was also to help me with my long depression, I will talk about that next post as I have to go, but I will always respond back to you, so please don't hesitate in asking questions. L Geoff. x
