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Severe Health Anxiety

Joey7
Community Member

I suffer from severe health anxiety and have for the past 6 years which all started after my son was seriously iill and we came very close to losing him thankfully we didn't. Since that time my anxiety has gotten a lot worse these past 2 years have been so bad with my physical symptoms worsening to the point I'm googling my symptoms all the time constantly thinking I have some disease that relates to the symptoms I have at the time. I guess I just don't believe that even though my anxiety is so severe it can cause these weird sensations and symptoms in my body which with having health anxiety the symptoms just escalate my anxiety and I can't function at all. I'm constantly waking up anxious hoping I won't have a the symptom that day then when I do it makes me so upset and frustrated I think I must have a serious disease for it to still be there. Can anyone else relate to this and has the horrible scary physical symptoms that go along with anxiety what did you do to help I don't want to be like this anymore the Physical symptoms are horrible. 

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Sick_Lizzy
Community Member
Hi everyone

I'm 25 and have suffered from health anxiety for about the last 3 years, it only became a problem in about the last year when I moved cities. I guess the big life change must have stirred something up and now I am quite anxious about various diseases and syndromes that I think I may have pretty much all of the time at the back of my mind. I am seeing a psychologist, and have started medication (which i'm not sure is very helpful) and have been able to figure out the root of the problem. My mother has been sick for as long as I can remember because of her eating disorder and now that she is in her 60s, her health is physically deteriorating very fast. This has been very painful to watch. Anyway recently I have started to develop real pain and sensations associated with whatever illness I think I might have. About 5 months ago i started to get pain in my teeth and gums just after I broke up with my boyfriend. I went to the dentist who told me nothing was wrong and that the pain would go away. When it didnt I went back and saw a different dentist who also gave my teeth the all clear. So i saw another dentist who said the same thing. I then went to the doctor who sent me for an xray and a lot of tests and still nothing could be found. I was relieved for a little while that there wasn't anything obvious causing the pain but then I started to worry more that it must be something really sinister and serious if no one can tell me what its caused by. I went back to the doctor this week and again he told me he thinks its just a symptom of anxiety. My question is this, is it really possible that this very real pain in my teeth and gums can just be all in my head? If it is then am i supposed to just live my life with this pain every day now? Has anyone else experienced something like this? I feel like such a freak and very alone when I try to explain this to other people as most of the physical symptoms of anxiety are things other people can relate to, teeth pain is just so strange. Its also frightening because I am still worried that any day now my teeth will just fall out from the pain.

Thanks for reading

Hi Lizzy, you can definitely feel physically ill from anxiety. It took me several months to come to terms with that. Lots of people here on the board have written about their specific symptoms, and there's quite a range. The way anxiety presents itself is unique to every person.

Think about it this way - when there's something conventional that you're afraid of (like giving a speech, or a spider, or heights, or whatever), you feel your stomach drop. Your skin goes cold. You might get a bit shaky. You feel your heart speed up, and you breathe faster. Anxiousness of any kind stimulates chemicals like adrenaline, and they do have a physical effect on how you're feeling. If you're sad about something, you might feel really heavy, your stomach might hurt - if you're happy, you could have a lot of energy and feel like you're buzzing. All of your emotions can have physical effects!

Anxiety is the same way. Your mind has an extraordinary amount of control over your body. You know how if someone says that they thought they saw a bug fall on your head, you'll start to feel the bug there, even if it's not? It's the same way with health anxiety. You convince yourself (subconsciously, even) that something is wrong, so then you start looking for something to be wrong. So, naturally, you find something, and fixate on it, and the more you are fixated on it, the more "real" it feels.

I've learned that my anxiety makes me very dizzy, foggy, lightheaded, and unbalanced. I'm not sure what the explanation is, but I know that those signs are a warning that anxious feelings are approaching. I can't explain it fully - I suspect it has something to do with adrenaline? - but like I said, minds are powerful. It's very possible for your mind to create such real sensations as achy teeth and gums.

I hope this makes you feel a bit better ๐Ÿ™‚

cakeboss
Community Member
Hi know the feeling reading some of these new posts.I have good days and bad days at the moment and are on weekly visits with my gp to get medication adjusted for anxiety panic attacks.I didnt have a good week last week but by the end of the week seemed to settle down .ive come to realise that my anxiety is its worst as i just wake up .it makes me nausea and think about things .I start to think if im feeling bit off that ive got somthing wrong me and think ive got certain ilnessess.I know for sure i have health anxiety .I trying so hard not to be so hard on myself and trying to keep busy and distract myself .I am currently waiting for my medication to see if going up in it has helped.I am having couciling aswell to stop irrational thinking.I am having a good day today and im so happy but yea hope my anxiety dosnt flair up again

Georgina13
Community Member
I used The Headspace app for a year. It was great...but then I discovered the Insight Timer app which is just wonderful ...and free. Give it a try ๐Ÿ˜Š

Hopeful21
Community Member

If I'm being honest with myself and everyone else, I've had health anxiety for 5 or 6 years. Mostly I function fine. However I recently aggravated a back injury which gives me nerve pain. Adding to that I now have some leaking urine when I move sometimes and cough. The physio and doctor tell me it's just "stress incontinence." Is that even a thing? I feel like no one is taking me seriously simply because I wear the anxiety label. My fear is that the bladder nerve is compromised because of the back issue, although apparently I would be totally incontinent. An MRI ruled this out but since them I have done further damage to my back. I am scared. It feels like this is never going to get better, despite me trying to do helpful things. I just want this to go away so I can go back to being me and not have fear constantly with me.

Sick_Lizzy
Community Member

Hey fellow health anxiety sufferers

I have had health anxiety since i was a young child, I've always been very afraid of diseases from the past like polio and the plague and would have nightmares about contracting some sort of medieval communicable disease. As I got older I became more obsessed with being really healthy so I could avoid any sort of lifestyle induced disease. I get very distressed and anxious when I have something as innocuous as the common cold because i can quickly convince myself that its something much more serious and I there's a possibility I will die from it. When I have something a little bit more serious like tonsilitis or a UTI I am basically a wreck who can't function. I also worry about developing other mental illnesses In the past few weeks alone I have been worried about HIV, other auto immune diseases, liver failure, bi polar, chlamydia, skin cancer, lung cancer and as of last night the plague.

I just moved to a new house in Sydney a couple of days ago and my housemate has a cat who currently has fleas. I think I've gotten a couple of flea bites and all day I have been terrified that I will catch something from the fleas like the plague. I know that sounds very ridiculous but my mind has a way of convincing me that if there is even a slight possibility of the plague coming to Sydney I will definitely get it and die a very slow and disgusting death. I feel really stupid even typing this as I've already spoken to a few friends about it who tell me I am being completely ridiculous but the fear is so real to me.

I'm hoping a few of you may understand and offer some reassurance. Health anxiety is so awful to live with because you feel as though you are constantly under attack and a prisoner in your own body. I hope this might help some of you at least to know you aren't alone. x

Tamieyka
Community Member

Hi all

Im new to bb

I have been struggling with anxiety for about 5 years now and have just come to relise after doing some research that what i thought was generalized anxiety disorder may well be health anxiety i am constantly feeling different sensations in my body from tingling in my ears and head to numbness so it has me constantly thinking i have some sort of disease that is slowly killing me.

I have come off my medication about 2.5 months ago after being on it for 3 years and it is like bam i am experiencing all these different physical symptoms that i have never felt before and they seem to change every couple of days.

I was wondering what have others tried that has helped them i am currently seeing a psychologist and carry a bottle of rescue remedy with me for when it gets very serve so i can function,

I feel like it is controlling my life and i cant be happy cause of the physical symptoms constantly makibg me think i am dying

Hi All

I am truly glad that I have come across this forum, as reading some of the posts here has made me feel a little less insane.

Why and when my anxiety started is a little unknown to me. Maybe it was the traumatic labour I went through, perhaps itโ€™s working with oncolog patients or seeing people suffer.... it could be any or none of the above.

The number of investigations that I have had thus far is astronomical, with each one feeling like a near death experience that had heightened my anxiety.

It started with difficulty with breathing, numbness and vertigo, which I now know was a panic attack.

It didnโ€™t stop there. I had suspected that I had a symptoms related to a brain tumour (3 times in the last 5 years- MRIs revealed nothing), ovarian cancer 4 times (annual ultrasounds- cyst removed- again it was nothing), liver cancer 2 times (abnormal blood work that went back to normal- again nothing), thyroid cancer (bloods not ok, thyroiditis, treatable- no cancer), eye cancer ( detailed imaging for orbital pain, blurry vision and headache- bad prescription- nothing else/no cancer), MS (multiple specialists, scan- no MS), throat cancer (persistent pain and difficulty swallowing- irritation, cause unknown, but no cancer), bowl cancer (endoscopy and colonoscopy- all clear), melanoma (two assessments on top of regular check up- nothing), cervical cancer (specialist check- nothing),...

Having had to think about all of that has made me feel sad and frustrated. I am angry at myself for not being able to rationalise and let go of these negative thoughts.

Does anyone have a solution other than medication? I want to enjoy and look forward to the future, but am genuinely struggling to stay positive.

Sending you all lots of love!

Rok2
Community Member
Ok, so I've been suffering with anxiety and PTSD for several years as a result of the sudden loss of a parent and all of the flow-on effects which have been ongoing ever since. For the past year or so, I've developed a severe fear of getting sick and having life threatening ailments. I've googled and googled anxiety disorders and never heard of health anxiety until I stumbled upon this forum today... And I believe that is what I'm suffering with as I've been able to relate to every single post, and I finally feel like I'm not crazy and maybe there is hope for me... Over the past year, I've had two MRI's, xrays, been to hospital three times thinking I was having a heart attack, thought I was having a stroke, believed I had cancer, epilepsy, blood clots, brain aneurysm (had an uncle die suddenly of one earlier this year) and so on... My symptoms seem to morph to fit whatever illness I think I have... My most worrying and current one is my belief that I may be suffering from motor neuron disease. I've been suffering symptoms such as tight chest, trouble breathing, numbness and tightness of the throat, yet all tests so far have come back clear. I have had a fresh round of blood tests and an Mri done this week, hoping that the results will help to settle these fears down again. The thing is, test will come back clear and give me reassurance for a few weeks and then, bang, it starts up again. My anxiety is getting very severe, to the point where I'm stressing about it from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to sleep. It is exhausting and pushing me to the point of desperation. I have been wanting to see a psychologist but haven't for fear of sounding ridiculous. Now that I know it's a real thing, I have been given a little bit of hope. It's reassuring to know other people are going through the same thing. I'm mostly now just annoyed at the fact that these lesser known types of anxiety don't ever seem to get mentioned in mainstream society, and even on mental health websites?? Leaving people like us feeling hopeless and helpless for far too long... I'm still scared and fearful but it's been reassuring to read other people's experiences and actually have a name to put to this horrible illness I've been dealing with, alone, for so long.

lucyvanpelt
Community Member
Honestly i cried reading this whole thread! Its such a relief and i relate so much to what people have shared. Thankyou! Ive had health anxiety and OCD since i was a child. I feel really trapped!Its completely taking over my life and making it impossible to enjoy anything or focus. I feel like even seeing my doctor doesnt reassure me anymore because i assume she must just not take my symptoms seriously having seen me freak out about so many different things over the years. My current fear is related to tingling sensations/pins and needles/numbness in my left foot and hand. Seriously every morning i wake up so desperate not to feel them and every day i do and it just derails everything!i m so torn because im similtaneously so embarrassed about it and feel so silly, and also so terrified that my health anxiety will create a "boy who cried wolf" effect where ill have/do have something really serious and no one will believe me or i wont believe myself ๐Ÿ˜ž . Has anyone found any treatments or coping stategies that work for them? Im exhausted