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Welcome to Beyond Blue forums Emma
It's great to see you've discovered our community. Triggers and anxiety are the pits at time aren't they? I know what you mean about trust issues, those voices of negativity in the head, the pushing away of someone you really care about. I've done all those things.
So, you're not alone out there with those feelings. There are many of us who experience similar things. I think you're spot on with wanting to go to the doctor. That is well thought out and a great first step to help with your anxiety. Have you also thought about discussing going onto a mental health care plan with your doctor when you do that?
Going onto a plan means you can - get 10 bulk billed visits to a psychologist. This will help you start to work out how to build trust in relationships. What do you think of that as an idea?
Also, have you explored our forums at all? There is a thread - Tips for Managing Anxiety that's pinned at the top of the Anxiety forum. Just suggesting this as a way to manage your anxiety when it rears it's head. Think about doing keyword searches too, and feel free to join in discussions that relate to your circumstances.
Your relationship sounds awesome. But I know what you mean about sabotaging it. I have done that myself. Though I was determined to make my marriage to my best friend work. And it has for 36 years or more. He's my best friend and will always be so. It took a lot of work by both of us to make it work! It has and continues to do so.
Keep reaching out to us Emma, if and when you want to.
Kind regards
PamelaR