Hey there, thank you so much for posting and welcome to the forums. Congratulations on the house, but I'm sorry to hear about your parents' health. It's difficult to see our parents in suffering.
Change can be scary, and there can be a lot of it in our 20s. On one hand, moving away from familiarity can be difficult to adjust to, as it's comforting to have a routine and a sense of predictability in our everyday lives. But on the other hand, change can be refreshing, as it gives us an opportunity to experience something new and to learn more about ourselves and our world.
I'd like to echo Croix here, in that having others' support in the move can be really helpful. Are there other people involved in looking after your parents and their health? If you have siblings or other loved ones who are also involved, you may find it useful to share the responsibility and chat about what this shared care may look like for you all.
If you're moving in with somebody else, have a chat to them about how you're feeling and they may be able to offer some advice or give some assistance to help you out. Have friends or other loved ones stay with you if you need, and you do also have the option of alternating staying with your parents and at your new house, particularly if you live relatively close by.
You may also find it useful to get some professional advice about this as well, speaking to either your own GP or your parents' healthcare providers to see how much they recommend you to be visiting or staying with them, given the condition of their health.
Please feel free to continue chatting with us if you need to, we're here to listen.
Wishing you all the best,
SB
