FAQ

Find answers to some of the more frequently asked questions on the Forums.

Forums guidelines

Our guidelines keep the Forums a safe place for people to share and learn information.

Arthritis at 20

Anon285
Community Member

Hi there,

I’ve been trying to stop thinking about the fact that I may have arthritis in my hips - I used to run and they have been flaring up over the years and the signs match up with osteo arthritis. My hips are shaped a bit differently so it hurts and grinds/clunks and hurt when I walk now whereas they didn’t use to.

Despite seeing a physio for the past few months and doing all of the exercises I need to do, they are still sore (less pain but still things going on) and I know it could be a lot worse and I’m lucky to be able to swim and walk a bit, I suppose I’m just anxious about it getting worse (or staying the same).

Maybe I could take up some new interests or something, to keep distracted. I used to be into fitness and now I’m not able to exercise as much and am also nervous about the consequences of this too... It’s end of year holidays so work and study have finished for the next couple of weeks and maybe my brain is trying to fill in all the free time.

Anyway, thanks for reading this and it would be a great help if anyone knows how to ‘let go’ of or ‘stop caring’ about stuff, especially when it could be there lifelong.

2 Replies 2

white knight
Community Champion
Community Champion
Hi, welcome

I'm 64yo and have osteo in my knees and fingers. Although I've just finished building our home it was while in heaps of pain.

I think once you find a hobby, your frame of mind will change. I used to build and fly model airplanes in a club, there's racing of model cars, all sorts of groups. Think about what interests you.

Also Google this

Beyondblue topic worry worry worry

TonyWK

missep123
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hi Anon285,

Thank you for sharing. I remember that one of the girls I used to babysit had a flare up of arthritis when she was 12 and my heart really went out to her.

I can see so much inner strength from your post. I don't know if you would relate to this but for me personally want nothing to be 'wrong', so when I'm not 100% I can really magnify onto it. What I have learnt is to really see my life and journey as a story with different chapters, compounding onto each other to help me grow as a person.

Here for you!