hi Caidsf, is it possible that the reason why she has broken up with her friend is because of her suffering from depression and doesn't feel as though the connection is worthwhile, or maybe it's the other way around.
Can I give you a tip and that's not to keep asking her questions because this will mean that she will close up on you or perhaps get angry with you.
This is something which we ask people not to do, and wait until she wants to start talking to you and slowly open up about what is troubling her.
I realise that you want us to give you an answer so that this situation come be overcome, and that's what we want to try and do, but if she does have bipolar, which I can't diagnose, then her moods are going to change from being happy to being sad, but her doctor will be able to give her medication which could control her moods and that's what she needs to do, see her doctor, and ask her if you can go as well.
There is no shame to see a doctor, but for some reason I'm not sure that she will want to go, so you can let us know about this, I just have that feeling, but I hope I am wrong.
People with any type of depression can't overcome it by themselves, sure they will be able to stop some surface problems but those deep down problems which she may know about but then she may not, are the ones that she needs help with.
A lot of people who have depression deny what ever someone says to them, so this is where the problem begins.
Stay in touch with us, because we would like to help the both of you. Geoff.
