Where to begin....

[black_rose]

Where to begin....

A year ago I caught my partner cheating... I was devastated, I gave him another chance...

A week ago I caught him sex messaging the same woman, he claimed it was only the second time...

Last night I noticed a text he was extremely protective of, he claimed it was 'work related'...

Turns out it it was another woman altogether... he has just started to 'sext' her...

Claims nothing physical happened... no big deal....

Attacked my libido, claimed if I gave it to him more, he wouldn't stray...

Claimed that financially "I need him and cannot afford to live without him"

He refuses to believe it's over, blames me for his infidelity.... Thinks I NEED him.

It's over! I will find a way to live without him....

[blondguy]

Hi Black_Rose

Welcome and from what you have mentioned above I am sorry for what you have been through. It sounds like you have been to hell and back

You are an intelligent and articulate person black_rose. No matter how long you have been with your partner this would have been very painful to go through .......again...

The forums are a safe and non judgemental place for you....I hope we can help even in a small way

I hope you can find some peace....(there are many gentle people on the forums that can be here for you)

my kind thoughts for you and the pain you are going through.....we are here for you

Paul

[geoff]

Hello Black_rose, and I join Paul in welcoming you to the forums.

It wouldn't matter how much the situation changed, the trust in your partner could never be sustained.

I think you have made the right decision but would like to know a little more about you if that's possible, in your own time.

Best wishes.

Geoff.