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Lonely, and looking for a friendship

toodepressed
Community Member

Hi there, I am currently having a difficult time with anxiety and depression. I have a current mental health plan with a psychologist and I share some of my thoughts and feelings with others offline. However, I don't feel comfortable talking openly with them especially, negative thoughts or daily situations and that making my lose the interstate of meeting them again or avoid them sometimes.

I don't like posting my thoughts and personal life publicly rather than discuss it privately with the ideal person. I would like to meet someone who suffer from the same issues (not professional) , who's interested in improving their mental life style and having the desire to pass this hard time.

About me

Age: 27

Gander: Male

Occupation: Student

Cheers

3 Replies 3

geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni
hello Toodepressed, welcome to the forum, and you aren't the only person who finds it difficult talking to their doctor let alone a psychologist, because what it does is that could open up the problems which you are struggling with, and that's a fear that frightens you.
This site doesn't allow people to know where to contact someone personally, the only way it can be done is through this forum, simply because if it was allowed then a situation may turn out to be ugly, where one person wants to stop the connection but the other person wants to still be involved with them.
Nobody knows who you are or what you look like, so it's an anonymous site, where everybody tries to help those that they can relate with.
There is never any criticism only advice, help and support because otherwise then it wouldn't be posted.
It's different than talking to a psychologist, most of the time people want to vent and this is where they can do it, so please don't be afraid. Geoff.

startingnew
Community Member


Hi there and welcome to BB
im 20yrs old and suffer from anxiety, depression, ptsd and also borderline personality disorder.


It can be really hard speaking to health professionals but you are on the right track in getting yourself some help.
As Geoff said this site doesnt offer personal connection and contact but we are here and willing to chat and support you through this tough time.


In regards to having offline friendships and relationships and thats to get out and about and join some interest groups, socialise at work, join some mental health support groups to get aquained with offline people


but your still more than welcome to chat on here about wat ever is bothering you

Thank you for your support:)