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What can I do to be helpful for a friend with Post Natal Depression?
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I have a close girlfriend who is suffering quite badly with post natal depression. She has a partner. She has moved back home with her parents for support. The three of them are living there currently. A week after she was diagnoses and moved back home, I took around some food to be reheated and some sweet treats too. I am in contact with her at least once a week via text. Just saying hello, how are you, thinking of you etc.
I'm just wondering what else I can do to be helpful? Is there something that I can do that will help her? I know flowers don't help but is that something that might be worthwhile? A plant? More goods? I feel helpless. If she was home is offer to look after her darling daughter for her but as she's at her mums, I do t want to step in toes!!! I'm after anyone with experience who might be able to suggest what they had or wished a friend did for them when they were so low.
i want her to know I'm thinking of her and here for her......but actually do something instead of just words. Hope that makes sense!
thanks in advance x
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Hi Mrs Sul,
Thanks for joining the forums. It sounds like you are being a great friend already. You might like to check out this section of our website for some further tips, and also our Just Speak Up website which has stories from mums who have been through postnatal depression, this could give you some more insights.
It's great that you are staying in touch and have been around to visit. Perhaps you could organise another visit, and suggest ways you'd like to help. You can offer to look after her daughter, or make meals, or maybe take your girlfriend out occasionally so she can get out of the house and take a break.
Does anyone else have some helpful suggestions?