my son is 29 he is depressed and has anxiety, however wont admit it. I have anxiety and am on meds, i have suggested he go to a doctor etc but he states i am the one with a mental illness.He big notes himself, is behind with rent constantly then has to pay a large sum, he is argumentive speaks over me very loud, hates everyone, has thought of ending his life, hates his job serving drunks alcohol. Dosnt want a girlfriend, the world is full of hate, religion wars, he watches who knows what on his computer, negative. Makes me feel im going crazy, how can he be like this, whatever i say is wrong. Things i say trigger him off, if i look at him the wrong way or laugh he has something to say about it. I told him he is hard to live with and he went right off. He thinks i want to stand over him and be in control. Yes he is spoilt, too late now, i did snap today and told him to just shut up he went to his room untill he went to work. My partner says thats what i need to do and not let him over power me he does it cos he can. Im sure he takes his frustrations out being argumentive over silly things including if i forget something at the supermarket. He needs to move out but when i mention this he states he gets tight in the chest and knots in his stomach and asked me not to speak of it again as it makes him ill. I need peace, i work in aged care and dont need this at home, i even notice that i look to see if his car is there when im approaching my gate which isnt normal.
