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Would you and how to tell your GP you self harm?
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Recently I have been self harming. Im not sure if I'm allowed to say how though. Should I tell my doctor? And if I do , how do I tell her? She is quite approachable and lovely. The idea of telling her that I S/H, fills me with so much anxiety! How do I blurt that out? What would she do? I already am booked for 6 psychologist appointments and I have written it down as one of my reasons for attending. Any advice please?
Thanks very much.
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Thanks LJ I’m doing better today. I have some really low points at times, last night was one of those.
It appears those calls are not confidential.
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I'm glad you're ok Rupe.
I'm wondering if they got your details from your phone number? Or email? I wonder. That scares me too.
Can anyone from Beyond Blue clarify please how lifeline would get personal details?
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We can't be 100% certain how Lifeline would have accessed your details. However, upon reading their terms of use it does says "In situations where Lifeline personnel believe that life is in immediate danger, Lifeline has a duty of care to contact emergency services. In these circumstances, Lifeline will disclose any identifiable and relevant information obtained during the text conversation to emergency services".
You can read more about the types of information they collect and how it may be used here: https://www.lifeline.org.au/media/igzp1al2/lifeline-australia-privacy-policy-june-2018-wfgjuucilopn....
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It was an online chat Sophie. They ask for personal details, including phone number, before putting you through to a counsellor. I didn’t give my real number for fear of this exact situation.
Appears my conspiratorial mindset was justified. I didn’t get a visit from anyone.
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Thank you for sharing that with me. I wasn't aware they required your phone number. We can sympathise with how anxious that would cause you to feel.
Hey LJpd81,
It depends on whether or not the counsellor perceives there to be a risk. If he or she believes there is an immediate risk of suicide, emergency services may be contacted. It's important to let the counsellor know whether or not you feel safe.
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As long as you're safe now. Always here if you want a chat.
Louise
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hey Rupes79.
I publish a way to maintain anonymity even on a phone call over in Unsure77's thread.
We can hide our mobile numbers quite easily for a simple anon.
Or we can ramp anon right up through using skype... or even further maybe.
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Thanks Louise, yes I am safe now. A visit would have heightened my distress.
In terms of your question about self harm you will need to be careful. If they think you’re at risk of harm they will notify emergency services.