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Hi Aimee.S,
Thank you for sharing your story with us, and I'm sorry to hear about your sister. It sounds like you've been offered so much support and advice here which is wonderful.
I don't think anyone has said this yet but a big kudos to you for going 7 months and 4 months. What an incredible streak! I totally get why you would feel that way with the surgeon. The sense of someone wanting to help you, and you wanting help but the timing not being right. It's so upsetting when you know this is what you want,
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part two! (sorry about that)
Relapses happen. Sometimes all the coping skills we know go out the window. That's okay. You're not back to square one. You've still learned so much, you've still made it so long without self harming. You still have all of those skills with you despite that relapse.
The grounding exercises are sooo good. Have you ever thought of making a self soothe kit? It's like a box with things to help keep you safe, whether it's a safety plan, creams, photos, perfumes/smells, something to eat/drink.. Especially anything that feels sensory (sight, smell, touch, sound, taste).
I hope this helps a little. Keep going, you've got this.
rt
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Just popped back in to see your progress Aimee.S. I see you have a lot of support already. And we are so grateful you are replying.
Your dog sounds like a great pet to love and cherish. We have a mini foxy 9yo and she is our baby. We adore her and she repays our affection 10 fold. I'm happy you have a dog that loves you that much.
TonyWK
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