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Night Owls (for those awake late and can't sleep)

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All
The purpose of this thread is as a meeting point for those that can’t sleep and it is late (I.E. AFTER midnight.)

It can be a useful space for users to share their issues with insomnia as well as coping strategies. It can also be a general space for users to converse and support one another throughout a difficult night.

Please note – for those that are just bored or lonely we already have a place - the BB Café, which I recommend instead of here

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/bb-social-zone/the-bb-cafe

Croix

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And the clock has struck past midnight, the Owls flutter away to the noise.

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Emo
Community Member

Hi, I hope everyone is well. I'm really struggling right now and I'm in a very bad place. I had a medical test today and there's more bad news. I'm not sure how much more I can take.

I was hoping that maybe if I talked to someone it might help but I have no one so I'm reaching out here, no pressure though. I know that others are struggling as well so I don't want to be a burden to anyone.

I'm outside in the freezing cold as I just want to feel numb and safe. I think it's about 1degree. I will try to stay out here as long as I can. I hope you all have a great nights sleep.

Regards,

Emo.

Dear Emo,

We’re so grateful to have you reach out to our community this morning and are so sorry to hear everything you have going on at the moment. Times like this can definitely get overwhelming . We hope that you find our forums to be a safe and supportive space to talk through your thoughts and feelings. Our community is here for you. 

We hope you know that there is always help available to you, whether it's from our professional mental health counsellors Beyond Blue (available 24/7/365 on 1300 22 4636) or our friends at Lifeline (13 11 14) or the Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467).
Keep checking back in with us whenever you feel up to it. 

Emo
Community Member

Hi Sophie_M,

You are always so kind and supportive. I don't deserve your concern. You shouldn't bother with me.

I just keep sitting here and staring at the road and thinking maybe I should make everyone happy and just do it. The last person who truly cared about me is gone. Maybe I'm just speeding up what will happen to me anyway if I stay where I live? I just don't want to be hurt anymore.

Regards,

Emo.

Dear Emo,

We’re so grateful to have you reach out to our community this morning and are so sorry to hear everything you have going on at the moment. We are reaching out to you again as we are aware moments like  like this can definitely get overwhelming . We hope that you find our forums to be a safe and supportive space to talk through your thoughts and feelings. Our community is here for you. 

Our Support Service is trying to reach out to you via email as we're worried about you. 
We hope you know that there is always help available to you, whether it's from our professional mental health counsellors Beyond Blue (available 24/7/365 on 1300 22 4636) or our friends at Lifeline (13 11 14) or the Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467).
Keep checking back in with us whenever you feel up to it. 
 
 

Lillylane
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hey Emo,

It’s good to hear from you.

I’m sorry you’ve had some bad news.

Thanks for reaching out - I hope it helps to be able to talk about what you’re feeling.

I often struggle to get words out.

Your posts are always very kind and thoughtful to others.

I hope you can get some sleep tonight.

Take care,

Lillylane

Guest9337
Community Member

Hi Emo. I would be happier if you told me about your days. Does Emo have an open thread somewhere I wonder... I go looking for you/ it my friend. Till then I am here and reading/listening to u.

Do you consider yourself an "emo"? I am very fond of the emo band "the Cure" whom I saw at concert a very long time ago. They Rock!

love dng.

Emo
Community Member

Hi Lillylane,

I'm so sorry for my late reply but I've been going through a lot so I've been trying to focus on just keeping going.

My medical issues have gotten worse so I'm trying to sort them out while in lockdown. I hope you are going OK with the current situation.

I appreciate your support and concern, thank you.

Regards,

Emo.

hello all

hi emo, how are u? i'm sorry to read u've been having a hard time. thats rough with lockdown but good on u for trying to sort everything out. Good to try and get on top of things, for sure.
Hi quirky, you had been asking about magnesium.,
I've been taking a nightly supplement which has valerian and magnesium, and licorice root

It doesnt do much, but sometimes its a little soothing. It's my favourite natural remedy i've sampled thus far

Emo
Community Member

Hi Sleepy21,

Thank you for your kind words. I am really trying to help myself to keep going. I know that you have been going through a hard time yourself but I hope things are getting better for you. Sending you my best wishes for a nice relaxing weekend.

Regards,

Emo.