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A Bouquet for Pearls - share your appreciation for other members

Just Sara
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Every now and then, members share a beautiful Pearl of Wisdom. How often do you think to yourself; "OMG that's great! I wish everyone could see this."

Presenting someone with a bunch of flowers is a generous way of acknowledging their insightful words.

I hope this thread stays active through members giving out praise regularly to people they feel deserving, and therefore keep generosity of spirit alive within the pages of BeyondBlue Forum.

My bunch of Red Roses (my choice) goes to Wishful for the following sentence;

  • 'Personally, I see no reason to be praised in me, but I'm learning that seeing through the eyes of others can be more accurate!!'

I so hear you Wishful. Just beautiful...

  1. Try to keep your leading comments short to focus on 'their' words.
  2. Choose specific flowers (or a gift if you like) to present to them.
  3. Sign off respectfully and sincerely.

I hope this takes off...

Spreading the love...Sara

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get well soon Mary xoxox

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion
Dear All~
Sez’s thread here is so important because it is very easy to take the efforts of others for granted – or if not that then not to appreciate to the fullest extent the real difficulties that need to be overcome at times for caring posts to appear.

I guess this unintentional neglect can apply to all who post, perhaps particularly to Community Champions who may persevere due to a greater sense of obligation because of their position. I’m thinking of one in particular at the moment, though all are deserving.

Sometimes one does glimpse the struggle behind the words and I’d like to offer a robust container of hope - an acorn - to Quercus (Nat). Nat has kept on offering all the hope and warmth of which she is capable despite hard times and the very great extra strain involved.

I wish her the peace and contentment she deserves

(Thanks Sez for this opportunity)

Croix

Hi Quercus and everyone,

Thanks, Quercus. I'm a bit blown away. I had to read through the thread to see what you meant about flowers.

I like Lavender flowers.

SM

Well done sad mushy

Tony WK

Thankyou dear Croix for your loving sentiments;

Acknowledging and praising people for their inner beauty, wisdom, caring, insight and especially giving, is a worthy endeavour indeed.

I'm more than happy this thread's taken off as I'd hoped it would. 🙂 Our voices are our gift to others as well as ourselves. There's so much pain, confusion and loneliness on this forum, yet we still give time and effort to support members. How brilliant is that?!

We're not alone in our struggle and that's a blessing.

To Nat, SM, Mary, Mathy, and all who've received bouquet's; your soothing and accomplished words; your pearls, validates your truth that lies beneath the pain, fear and heartache. It's who we all are...treasure troves of loving intent.

I'm honoured to be among this caring community of sufferers, care givers and peers. Well done and keep up the great work!

Sincerely;

Sez xo

Hi Sad_Mushroom.....that was a seriously great advice re apologizing and being a stepping stone as a result 🙂

Tulips for CMF for her super wonderful post about people being there when she was faltering.....

Hugs and care for Mary....Im sorry that you are doing it hard x

Paul

Oh! Ah damn now the bloody tears again 😊.

I popped in to send a group bouquet and saw your post Croix. And yours Sad Mushroom (got a mental image of the red Mario Bros mushroom in a field of lavender...What a cool avatar that would be huh?

Waffling again...

Thank you Croix for the acorn. It reminded me of a happy memory so I'll share that and then log off for a few days. Meaningful choice of gift and words that hit home hard. Thank you.

Bit frazzled. A bouquet of foxgloves from my garden to those who have written to me. You know who you are. My apologies for not naming (I'll miss someone I know it!). I will write individually but it will take time. I am very thankful for you all and the kindness you've shown to me.

❤ Nat

I would like to send a bouquet of your favourite flowers to every person connected to this forum, wether you be a regular member, a first time user, or someone who just reads and doesn't contribute.

Each and everyone of us are important. We all have our own unique way of communicating, we may never know hoe much our words impact others in a positive way.

So just want to send out bouquets and thank yous to everyone who helps make this forum the place that it is.

For those of you with a sweet tooth, I am going to include some of those gorgeous chocolate flower bouquets I have seen about the place. Just hope the chocolates don't melt in this heat!

Cheers all from Dools

Birdy77
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hello to every lovely person ❤

I'm new. I'd like to piggyback on Dools' bouquet and offer every single person who is reading, whether they post or not, a big pot full of sunflowers (like in my pic) 🌻🌻🌻

I have found these forums a place of solace and support these past few days that I've been a member and i am so grateful this community exists and for all the kindness and love and support you all show to each other.

Much love and light to every single one of you who reads this.

🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤ Birdy

Absolute amazing place isn't it, this is how RL (real life) should be.

👍 Boomer Dools, you too Bir0dy, lovely flowers

Thx everyone for making it an awesome place esp the great work behind the scenes Management, Mods, Champs & all 👍😎🤗