Insecure anxious attachment and moving on from a relationship
Thanks for popping back in and posting again.
Has this person contacted you again?
There's nothing pleasant about breaking up, losing someone you gave a second chance to, being alone when you wish to be partnered up.
But there's NOTHING worse than being in a relationship where you are treated like sh**.
You said you don't know how to meet people?
I'm not sure of the movements permitted in your area, but have you thought of joining some activity clubs you're interested in?
My thought is that if we put alot of LOVE into our lives, doing things we LOVE, hanging out with people who LOVE the same things, then we get happier and happier... I've found when I've done this I usually think really positively about my single life.
Then meet someone lol.
Having shared interests is a really great thing!
Thank you EM.
He has interacted with me a little bit through social media (liking my Instagram photos etc.) but no messaging directly. He seems to be ignoring a hard conversation but still keeping me on the back burner through social media. So it’s hard to know what he’s thinking.
I was considering joining a few clubs and the gym to meet some more people, thank you for your ideas.
So you've heard of "being kept on the back burner"?
It's what every expert Narc and cheating person does.
It takes a near lobotomy for some people to "change", I think you need to believe he hasn't changed one iota.
I found Chumplady a GREAT support to deal with the aftermath of a cheating ex.
She's fantastically great fun and really helps us laugh through our tears.
I'm so grateful I don't have to deal with all the "wondering"anymore.
It's a terrible way to "live".
Bestest wishes for seeking great groups.