I feel like i suddenly don’t love my GF anymore
Hello Bill, welcome to the site.
If you are struggling with anxiety and OCD and whether your girlfriend is aware of this, then it is possible to be having these thoughts when you are together, whereas it maybe different when you talk on the phone, however, people with these types of disorders can be prone to having 'intrusive thoughts'.
I had them with my Mum who I dearly loved and couldn't understand why, so it was so confusing but more so frustrating, why on earth would these terrible thoughts dominate my thinking.
If you type this in your search browser or at the top of this page, a swag of posts will appear and also includes me as I also have anxiety and OCD.
They can cause distress, as the thought might be upsetting and may also reoccur frequently, which can make the concern worse.
You can also contact Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 by phone, web chat or online, these counsellors are trained and will adapt to your circumstances or you may decide to contact your doctor and then counselling with a psychologist on a mental health plan, this entitles you to10 Medicare paid sessions per year.
Having these thoughts certainly doesn't mean you don't love your girlfriend, just take it easy at the moment and I promise you will feel better, but please get back to us and ask any question you like