dealing with husbands split personalities
Firstly, welcome to the forums. Sorry to read what you are going through currently.
I think the main thing to point out is that you do love him and that is important. Dealing with what seems like split personalities is tough. It is good you have raised the issue with him but if he isn't understanding and going back to his old ways then maybe it would be a good idea to speak to a relationship counsellor? Someone who can mediate the issues to try and solve them, this I feel can generally work especially when the love is there as you say it is.
Please, post back as much as you like, I am always happy to talk.
My best for you,