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Introduction - Hello Everyone

Guest_498
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Hi all,

I'm new to this forum. I'd like to introduce myself. I'm 40 years of age, female. My interests include music (any genre), reading a great novel, watching comedy, Restuaranting, and learning new things. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Depression feels very lonely for me. I'd like to reach out for some support. Thank you.

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Ems,

So pleased to hear about your chook - she has a mind of her own!! Lol, sweet lil, thing...so good she's feeling better.

Schitt Creek, I have yet to check out. Ppl are raving on about it, says its really funny. I'll check it out when I can.

Have you tried out the Beyonce Crazy in Love dance moves on Youtube?? I've tried and its hard. Even when you break it down, the steps are hard to remember unless you practice it like all the time. I will try break it down. I like the moves and gives great exercise with the stomach rolls etc. works out your upper and core stomach muscles. Love the song.

xx

Music inspo: Lambada by Mad Morello (D.J remix). Its pretty good for dance/ excercise.
Listened to this twice this arvo for inspiration.

Gosh, my flatmates cute. Hes very cute.
I keep catching him checking me out. Blush blish. I do the same but im more discrete about it all. He just looks!! And makes me blush. Why couldn't he be more discreet?
So, hes really into exercise aswell. But more mountain bike ride for long distances. Mmmm. Nice body. Lol.

ecomama
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Lol, you're funny Blubes.

So there's a bit of chemistry between you two?

stay tuned peeps!

Lol.

I love Lambada!
I haven't heard that one.... I'll listen when my phone's charged, my grandkids have been using my charger for HOURS charging up their whaddayacallits. Whatever they are lol.

ok, listening now, that's a really cool song!

I'm glad you like Beyonce too, I adore her lol.
Have you seen her performance at the Stevie Wonder Tribute?
It's AWESOME.

2 of my favourite singer song writers.

EMxxxx

I love queen B!! So talented and hot, too. No, havent seen it, but will def check it out.
The lambdas pretty cool. Takes me back to my childhood. The modern remix by Morello is pretty cool. I like it.
Yeh, my flatmate and I are def flirting with one another. But I'm bit cautious not to over step this, as he's got a friend whos a girl, remember? And, for me ... Im a natural born flirt anyway, Ive been told many times by ppl, so ima tone it down a notch - I have been doing just that. He did blush a few times whilst we were talking. Lol. I thought that was cute. I still got it, babyyyy. I am 10 years older than him so ... Lol. Played with cute players like him before. My hot Spanish ex being one of them. Hehe.
Anyway, on a more serious note, I thought more about my criminology and law degree ... I made up my mind today. Ive decided to stick with bach of crim for 2 years, then undertake a further 2 years in law (juris doctor). Total 4 years (same as a bach of law anyway). The reason: If I enrole in law and get tired of studying, Im stuck with it. Whereas, crim will be 2 years, Ill have to finish that duration. Im not locked in for 4 years.
When I graduate after 4 years ill come out with 2 degrees and I could either get into policy writer/advisor or practice as crim defence lawyer. Win, win.
I start in March 2021. OMG!! I cant believe Im finally working towards finishing my education. Ill be NO fun!!
Blubes xx

Beyonce is my fave as well. Not sure how she can be so in love with JayZ but she seems to be. I left my man after he cheated...if he cheated multiple times...I'm sure I'd be out the door.
Hopefully he's changed for good.

She's mega talented. And mega beautiful.

So you and the flatty are perving...
Oh I can see where this could end up, lol. Yep, I'm a naughty Monkey ATM.

So bummed I have parents that throw their crap around at me. Happened today and I'm still not over it. Pretty sure it's got the potential to drive me out of here. I still can't believe how I was spoken to. She's got no right.
Been eating hungry jacks recently. So yum, for me.

Only show I've been watching is home and away. I'm sad Colby got arrested 😞

We posted at the same time Blubes, just got your latest post.

Oh wow, good for you. Sounds like you will be working very hard to achieve your career goals.

You will be living with purpose, love it.

Hey naughty,
Yeh, I believe we posted at the same time. Ems & I do it all the time!!
Thnx darling heart ❤ I cant wait to start rebooting my life with purpose!!
Lol .. Your comment "oh I can see where this could end up". Lol you ARE naughty. I'm srly NOT wishing to cross any boundaries, Monkey. Hes my flatmate and hes got a girl. I like to keep him around as a flatmate, help with bills. I need him for that. I dont want to screw it up.
Whats going on with you & your family, girl? Are you ok?

I'll be ok. I just feel that my mum is way too comfortable with me and feels she can speak crap at me.

It doesn't make me feel very good. Happens about every 3 weeks.

If it gets too much I'll just move out. Problem solved.

Could you afford to move out? It gets expensive living on your own. Perhaps it mightnt be a bad idea if your mum feels entitled to speak down to you. Thats never a good thing, it becomes toxic - I've been in this position (moving back home as an adult), is not a great thing for your relationship with mother. For me, it broke us up. I stayed for far too long - shouldve left when I wanted to. I didn't even want to in the first place, believe me.
Moving out might be just the thing for you. Not being stuck in each other's hair.