Hi girls and Uncle
I'm home earlier than I thought I'd be. I brought so much work to do on my Leave but I'd rather be home and "around" than at work - leaving the kids exposed and vulnerable.
I read back.
"Nice" letter from mother there Blubes. Just directives.
Tbh I wouldn't have contact at all. But that's me. I was younger than you when I cut contact, so it was around the same age. Difft issues altogether.
Either way I would phone WLS and you'd better hurry bec I'm phoning them tomoz.
First in best dressed lol. I can't even remember their operating hours...guess I'll find out when I phone.
I think you should phone them first before making any decisions like this.
The thing about abusers and abuse is that each time you "go back" the abuse worsens.
It NEVER gets better.
They NEVER get a lobotomy.
It's a cycle. You can Google "The Cycle Of Abuse" and read as much as you dare.
The next thing about the abuse.... the cycle quickens. The time between their successful "buy back" (phone me with 2 masks in an envelope is a buy back) and the onset of abuse happens faster and faster each time UNLESS....
they have major family functions coming up, a BIG example being THEIR birthday, and they hold off until after the party - that afternoon or night is their choice pick.
my mother chose the week leading up to any special occasion - we called "the bubbling".
She starts to bubble, being ALMOST at the boil and then she blows her top like a volcano.
Either the morning OF or straight AFTER.
Eldest D says it's when the attention is not 100% on THEM anymore. Or not for ONE second.
I feel sorry for all the Sophie_Ms - THANK YOU SOPHIES! Because boy they had to edit my posts last night for the swear words. Not ACTUAL swear words but eluding to them pretty clearly.
I need to post on my thread then have a nap.
I'm outside feeding my blind chicken for a while, so I won't nap here! lol.
Love EM
