hi Kanga, it's been a real struggle since you first posted a long time ago, and absolutely nothing has gone your way, maybe sometimes but only temporarily, but never to it's full advantage.
It seems to me that you were conned into going into this care facility by those knowing exactly how to achieve this, resulting in you being totally dissatisfied, unfortunately this has been the case for a long time, where you have never had a chance to really express yourself, don't get me wrong here, because you have been trying to make your views to those who are concerned, but it's fallen on deaf ears, that's not how anyone would want to live their senior years, and it's something that I have also feared in later years/days, who knows.
I would also be horrified if none of my family came to visit me, that's the pits of life, wanted when you can, but neglected when you are of no use.
I do feel so sorry that all of this has been going on, but you must never lay down and do what is expected from you by those in charge if and when you are unhappy, it doesn't matter whether they take notice or not, you are stamping your ground. Geoff.
