Dear Elisabeth~
The last time we spoke you were trying to get your sleep pattern improved. With all that is happening to you at the moment I doubt it's anything to write home about.
From the sound of it there is an awful lot happening. A death, a husband unwell and hard to care for, plus problems with an organization, dealing with a psychologist, psychiatrist and more. An awful big load, all at once.
I don't have any great advice, maybe trying to separate each thing out so it becomes a series of problems -some solvable now, some harder.
I do know that all the way though you have prevailed. Your judgment remains good -the incident with the physio proves that, pity your advice was not taken and your husband could then come out of therapy more able to function.
I do have a question. You very naturally don't want your husband to feel bad, as he can't work. I agree it is a big thing for him to cope with. In my own case I found that being able to give support (non-financial) to my wife gave me something more too. Do you think that might be the case with him, that perhaps you could lean more?
I hope this present wave of problems quickly returns to a more normal scene
Croix
