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Alone..Depressed..Sad..

Ggrand
Community Champion
Community Champion
Hi..I'm new here..just need to put my feeling down..no one to talk to makes depression and anxiety so hard...the last 4 days I have either been in bed crying or on the lounge crying..I can't seem to get out of this...I am becoming a prisioner in my own home as its getting progressively difficult to go out.. I have to go out Tuesdays so I do everthing on that day but it's like I'm holding my breathe all day until I get back to the safety of my home then I can let go and that starts the cycle again of spending the next 6 days at home either in bed or on the lounge sad and depressed...I really feel like just giving up.. My husband passed away 4 years on This coming Thursday. My children live 6 hours drive away and have small children so I don't see them that much.Bad mum and grandmum I am on there last visit i was pleased to see them but I just wanted them to go home. I feel so aweful and numb atm..
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Hanna3
Community Member

Hi Grandy,

Sending you my love and support, and from little Sam. In ICU he will be in very good hands, and a specialist unit will have highly trained staff to care for him. Such a difficult, frightening, awful time for you all. Biggest hugs from me here and sending all the positive vibes I can send your way... keep us informed when you can dear lady. Will pop back when I can, and Paws and Deebi are here too. xoxoxoxoxoxo

Guest_1055
Community Member
Just giving you a comforting hug dear Grandy. Like you give to me.

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey dear Grandy 👩‍❤️‍👩 and all ☺

Right here sweetyheart. Just want you to know you're all in my thoughts more than usual.

You dear love I'm so glad you're around family.

Always the deepest love and care Grandy 🤗🤝👀

👩‍❤️‍👩💜

Katyonthehamsterwheel
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hi lovely Grandy

No expectation of a response, but wanted to add my support also. Thinking of you.

Katy x

Tess2
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Dearest Grandy,

my love goes to you at this time. ICU is serious stuff, the care given in these units is excellent and always totally geared to each patient as an individual. The drs and nurses in these units are very highly skilled and caring. He will be well looked after.

i am glad you are with your other son. You need family at this time. You also need faith that he will be well looked after and all the best done for him.

my love to you dear Grandy.

Tess

Hello Everyone....🤗,

Thank you all for your caring support..

My son came home on Wednesday, the community nurse is going to his daily to change his burns dressings for this week then an assessment mid week at the hospital...His burns are bad but not to much life changing....

His stomach wounds are healing after 2 surgeries, still has a drain in and heaps of stitches...he is doing better then anyone expected....

He has a long road towards recovery and healing, I know he will be okay...his work boss is doing all he can for my son and his family....

The first thing my son said when he walked inside his house was...(ah I get to sleep in my bed tonight....how lucky I am I can do that...and be with my family)..

I can’t thank you all enough for just being here and your well wishes for my son....I believe in the strength through prayer and good wishes of health and recovery ....

My love, hugs and kind thoughts to you all..

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩Grandy..

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hello sweetyheart 👩‍❤️‍👩 and all ☺

Oh what fabulous news wow the poor guys been and going through the mill. Clearly been and is being very well looked after.

So so good hes back at home and recovering better than expected.

What a massive relief sweet Grandy. Been thinking so much about you all. SO pleased with your news geez you must be so relieved too darlin.

Hope you're able now to enjoy more being with family my gorgeous 🤗

Thanks for letting us know Grandz.

No hurry for reply just wondering how you are?

Huge lasting love 4evs sweet lady 🤗🤝👩‍❤️‍👩💜👀🗯🌈

Paw Prints
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hello Grandy,

Oh that is wonderful news to hear he is home... however long it takes from here... just being in a familiar place with his loved ones will help his recovery so much...

I'm so pleased that you are able to see him now & spend time with your family supporting each other...

Hugest of hugs

Paws

Hanna3
Community Member

Hi Grandy

What a relief for you all that your son is home out of hospital! I can imagine he is glad to have his own bed back, hospitals are not comfortable places!!!

It must have been a dreadful accident for injuries like that, I hope your son takes all the time he needs to recover.

I'm so relieved for you all!!!

Big hug as you've had such a fright!

🤗💞🐕🐶💐🌻🏵🍀

Hi Grandy

So pleased that your son has been able to come home, and that he is being well supported.

Katy x