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The Transcendent Rainbow Cafe - social space for LGBTI members

Paul
Blue Voices Member
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It would be so great to have a thread here where we can chat about almost anything. We can have fun, tell jokes, share stories, you name it!

There's a "BB Cafe" thread in the general area where lots of people chat daily and have established some nice light hearted conversations, it's treated as if it's a real cafe, there's even virtual baked goods and coffee!

Let's create a chat here for anyone to join, in particular the GLBTIQ community to let their collective hair down and chill out. It's a safe space to be yourself.

We just need a name 🙂

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Jo8049
Community Member

0400 , clear bright moon only bright stars , Northerly 5/8 knts , 10.4° , 31% . WFTNN x .

Happiest day you can have everyone❤, extra ❤ for those still in lockdown xxxx hugs

Hot drinks and eggs & bacon again ! Have to sack LD , won't lift a paw to help again !!

Amber that sounds pretty lousy all those people leaving the rest to do the work load ? I guess a lot of work forces have a component of slackers ? Just means the others do the work and consequently are at work more time than they may want ? Overtime is good if it fits but not if it doesn't . How are you , and guitar ? How are lambs Moby and " Diva " ? Lol hugs xxx

Hi Sarah , how was yesterday for you all . If I heard right your lockdown is lifted a bit ? Was on zoom for meeting last night . Was a good hour or so . Technology ! Hugs xxx ❤

Still pondering the missing photographer . That connection ??????

Pulled out of Travellers Village ( WA/SA border ) eastbound early hours one morning in the middle of a ferocious thunderstorm . 20 or so km out is a big parking bay on left , there were maybe 15 trucks there . Storm was right on top of us and as I passed it a huge bolt came down over me and split into huge number of tracers , not touching the truck but landing all around me ? The warm glow in the cab instantly became blinding white , Terrified !!! Looking in the mirrors I saw all the trucks coming out to follow me . Had radios all shut down and in wind and heavy rain would back off substantially . They stayed behind all the way to Penong ( 5 hours ) ? I fuelled there and they told me when I asked why ? they said they were terrified to and thought I must have knowledge they did not and let me lead them ? Very violent storm that raged all the way . Penong had much damage . xxxx

Talk soon dear friend , still pondering the connection ? Closed the page in journal on that , unresolved ? Emotions ?

Zoom was good to , once I got it to work ? Makes it easier to read how people are so can respond better .

Warm safe happy day for you all , lots and lots of love from the never never , hugs ( unlimited ) & xxxx , us ❤❤❤🐾💃🌈🍩🍫🌥

Another new day soon , more new light and thoughts , much love kindness and peace to everyone the world over , from the never never ,❤❤❤ Jo&HRS/LD ❤🐾💃🌈🌥

amberlite
Community Member
Hey Jo I love your road tale I enjoyed the way you wrote it, exciting and epic because I imagine it all happening in the middle of nowhere. The visuals are always better outside and away from built up areas. I like a bit of white wash when I come throw I feel victorious, you must have felt awesome driving point in convoy and threw a storm. My world is good neighbour doing evening lamb feeds more overtime, my guitar man is off on a cull, he could probably take more feral just playing his guitar. The dogs are good we have a weimaraner dog staying with us for a week. Moby just loves Dude they make hound songs a lot, having a visitor has badly unsettled Diva but everything gives her the irritates. I tried to take Divas picture but the phone makes her aggressive and all photos are not keepers I will have to sneak photos when she is asleep. Back at work more overtime Boss still fuming he is a bit of a drudge, I find it hard to understand masked people, something is lost when faces must be constantly covered. I don't like to look people in the eye, like Diva it is too intense, so this mask business is weird. However life must go on so I return into the fray. Thanks for being brilliantly happy it helps a lot.

Jo8049
Community Member

0400, clear bright moon few stars , calm , 13.9° , 34% . WFTNN x .

Hugs & happiest day you can have for everyone ❤ ftnn xxx

LD is in charge of kitchen today ? Hot drinks and e&b or porridge ? She wont share her food though !( except with me ) ❤

Hi Amber , Glad Moby has a friend to stay and the choir sounds beautiful , I suppose Diva could do the solo's ? Maybe not !

Covid stuff is really getting its teeth into us all in some way . Our cost of living has gone up significantly here since 2019 ? The age pension has not . All but the lowest relief payment in NSW is significantly higher than age pension . Could be living under a bridge I guess ?

I have had to pull right back with the pilot work because of transphobia ! Cash flow has pretty much dried up now .

Thank you for last bit of post . Sometimes I have wondered if my glass half full stuff is appropriate ? When all goes quiet I flinch thinking is it me or others just busy ? ❤ hugs & happy day xxx

A sailing story , early 1990's . Was off the south east coast of SA @ 2100 ( approx ) on sse heading motoring . On board a beautiful 32' yawl that I bought in Port Adelaide and prepared her for sea in preceding months . Had a small aft cabin . You could put your arm around the mizzen and sit on front of that aft cabin . A large moon was low on the rise in the east .

The water was alive with phosphorescence and every ruffle was a light show . Looking out to starboard ( rhs ) I notice movement . Coming straight towards us were two bright trails in the water , torpedoes ? Very fast !!! They appeared to be locked onto us !!?? My heart rate went ballistic , terrified as they. closed in , ready to go to Davey Jones' locker by now they did a right angle turn maybe 5 mtrs off and slowed to play ? Dolphins in the phosphorescence ❤❤❤

Hi dear Sarah , how are you ? Are you all ok ? Huge hugs xxxx and hot chai and plentiful muffins RDL . Happiest warm day you can all have xxxx ❤❤❤🐾💃🌈🍩

In another hour the new light will begin , so lovely its accompanied by warm air from the north , cold tomorrow but thats another day !

Much love & Peace to all of you beautiful people xxxx hugs ( CovidSafe ) Jo&HRS/LD ❤❤❤🐾💃🌈🌥😎

Oh Jo..

I had the most wonderful of messages for you and then the site went down and did not post my message..aghhhhhhhh

So stayed tuned as I try to recreate it.

Hugs

S

Hello to you both in the NN xx

Glad to hear you are back on deck today Taffy, I hope you enjoyed your day off yesterday..lol although I can see that you are still taking things very slow today which is very cute...mwah xx Great to hear that you are back in the kitchen tho and I will have pancakes please, with all the trimmings...yum!

I can hear how saddened and somewhat taken back by the disappearance of the FB friend. It does hurt when we make connections and for whatever reason people just leave, whether it was too confronting for them, or whether the connection brought the situation to reality too much and they were not ready yet, there could be a million reasons and you can be there all day and night thinking of why, I think to just accept that they may come back in the future and they may not and that you did have a connection with them, but now they have moved on. Does that make it any easier to accept, no, does that make the hurt go, no...but it is like here a little bit too..you chat and you work through things with people and then just like that one day they go on their merry way, it does take some getting used to. It would make you a robot if the connections formed did not hurt when abandoned. It shows your beautiful heart Jo.

I am looking for the compass bearing but it is not obvious to me..trying!

It is lovely now with some of the lockdown restrictions eased all though there are still a few things that are limiting but essentially it is nice to be back in the office with people, and to have the kids back at school. They are happy too to be back with friends and to have their courses resume.

I had to laugh at your comment with regards to your "rats nest" hair, I think that is pretty much how we are all rolling with lock down and appointments cancelled and with working from home, a beanie does cover a multitude of sins..hahaha

Am looking for sunshine cover pics, and avatars but not coming together for me.

Huge hugs to you both today and sorry this post seems a bit scatery as I am trying to remember what I wrote along with new thoughts that come into my brain...lol

I am enjoying the Olympics, have you managed to catch any of that, it is some nice feel good moments in this time of mostly sad stuff on TV.

The media is somewhat bothering me, a few suicides reported yet no one used the word, why? We are trying to hard to smash the stigma yet the media do not model this...so very frustrating for me.

Hugs again

Sarah xxxxx

Hello great day all workers have return, the boss is taking the day off maybe to let things blow over. He is an ok boss and his father was our old boss but his father was more hands on, so the workers compare them. I don't care so long as there is no overtime Yay. Hey Jo your glass half full is awesome, never never forget the power of positivity, it is free and makes life beautiful. Transphobia in 2021 what are these people unaware of or afraid of?? Your dolphin tale is romantic and full of the sort of drama that brings people together, dolphins are lovely naughty creatures. I heard on the radio that male dolphins have boy friends to live, love and play with and only visit the female dolphins for breeding. They also like to throw around jelly fish like their playing rugby. Pulling back on pilot work, good for you I get the sense you will do what is right and when it is right. Back on the home front the weimaraner is behaving sensitive to Divas fear aggression, he Dude gets down and turns his head sideways, Moby never did this cause this is his territory, but Dude is trying to reach her, animals are amazing.

Guest9337
Community Member

"Tonga's beloved shirtless flagbearer returns for Tokyo Olympics opening ceremony"

That is doing something for me...

Hi everyone!

Jo8049
Community Member

0330, Clear waning moon still bright but reducing , calm totally , 4.1°, 33% . WFTNN x .

Muffin day , happiest day possible for everyone xxx ftnn ❤

Chai Coffee + Smokey Tea . I better do pancakes , LD got mix all in fur and 1 week to get it out last time . Couldn't get the mixing spoon in mouth right and tipped 5 bowls over as well . She is just not made for that job ??? ❤

Hi Amber , glad you feel that way , thank you xxx . Dude has manners . What lovely gestures he makes as he could probably swallow Diva whole . Pats for them all .

It sounds generational , the differences from father to son , in the way they work things out . He sounds fair though , if so that is good these days . lol xxx ❤

Sarah dear friend , am so glad you are mostly free . Bet you all breathed a sigh of relief . How are you going with vaccinations . Can the kids do it to or to young ? I am glad I am , have heard all negatives but am old and if kark it from vacc is not that big a deal in the overall scheme of things . Want some protection ! Super happy chai & muffin day 🍩 young lady ❤❤❤ hugs xxx

In the old days when gps didn't exist we used paper charts , and you needed basic knowledge to navigate . For coastal a hand bearing compass was used . Lighthouses & topographic coastal anomalies were used . 2 fixes ( min ) taken so when laid on chart the resulting lines cross and thats position at time of fix .

If you stood in World square in Brisbane pointing due north and turned left 90° you would be on a heading of 270° . The compass has 4 main reference points , NSEW . You need W and put that in place and should get you there . -o -e-s- . Look for LD she is there I am not very good at cryptic lol ?

In eastern Bass Strait @ 1500 I was laying on bow of little yacht and talking with dolphins . Dragging finger tips in water , one D was coming close and talking to me . D swam on an angle for quite a while looking into my eyes . They have big eyes , deep brown & wise . Suddenly moved in and ever so slowly and gently swam gently dragging my fingers along its back to the dorsal fin and time stopped . I ever so gently massaged the dorsal .Time ???? Suddenly did splash and frolicked with us and then gone . Filled the soul in one hit that one ❤❤❤❤❤

Happiest 🍩 day dear S . Thank you xxxx ❤❤❤ stay safe and warm , all of you , hugs ftnn ❤💃🐾🌈🌥

More new light , how cool , Peace Love + Understanding to all from the never never xxxxx hugs ( cs ) Jo&HRS/LD ❤💃🐾🌈🌥

Muffin day indeed and while it was kind of dry and a little disappointing I still ate it..lol!

Yay for freedom and yes, have a few plans over the weekend but nothing like I would like to do which is just essentially hang out with my friends, we are still not allowed to do that yet.

My ability to use a paper chart is somewhat limited, while I think I get the 270 I am not sure I am in the right spot..lol..looked under Jo for a pic of LD but still think I am driving blind here....hahaha

What a gorgeous story of the dolphin Jo, they are such beautiful creatures and so intelligent. That would have been a totally breathtaking experience to be that up close and have that interaction..wow!

I am still laughing at you having to pick pancake batter out of Taffy for at least a week, bowls everywhere and not many pancakes in the stack, typical of me to pick something that causes so much kitchen drama..haha

I have recently joined this FB group that a lady has started that is connecting people with a penpal situation like in the old days, where people wrote letters to each other. It is such a great thing and she is connecting people who don't have anyone in their life or who are feeling lonely and they write letters to each other, and even people who want to be apart of it to be penpals to people who are feeling disconnected, it is so wonderful and is called Connected Au, I am waiting to see if I get put with anyone to be a penpal. Very exciting!

My kids are not in line to get the vaccine although I am sure it will only be a matter of time until we are including kids in the mix. Not long now until I get mine, so I am looking forward to having that all done with.

Do you have anything exciting planned for the weekend? I will be busy with kids sports now that we are back into that again and it is also the anniversary of my brother's passing tomorrow so I will do something to acknowledge that in the best way possible seeing that a visit to NSW is off the cards right now. I suggested to my dad we should plant a tree or something so that we have something here to have as a memorial place when we are not able to go to the Snowy to be with him.

Stay warm my friends and will be getting the heater fired up this weekend that is for sure, the winds are so cold and fierce lately I am not sure what is going on but I am not a fan!

Huge hugs to you both and will be looking forward to my pancakes xx

Hugs

Sarah xxxx

Jo8049
Community Member
Hello again dear friend . Pen pal is interesting and tactile which adds another dimension . West is the 🗝. Jo & the 🗝 xxxxx ❤❤❤🐾💃🌈