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The Transcendent Rainbow Cafe - social space for LGBTI members

Paul
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

It would be so great to have a thread here where we can chat about almost anything. We can have fun, tell jokes, share stories, you name it!

There's a "BB Cafe" thread in the general area where lots of people chat daily and have established some nice light hearted conversations, it's treated as if it's a real cafe, there's even virtual baked goods and coffee!

Let's create a chat here for anyone to join, in particular the GLBTIQ community to let their collective hair down and chill out. It's a safe space to be yourself.

We just need a name šŸ™‚

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Hey Jo and scratches to you LD... I am on my way to a long weekend away with friends and chatting to you from the car...

You have so many wonderful stories that I am loving sharing with you and hearing about when you lived on the sailboat is so fantastic..... imagine eating that fresh fish right there... wow... you have really inspired me to try my hand now at some sushi... I am going to try and see how I go.

Empathy and emotional responses are so closely linked in that when we do feel so deeply we can easily imagine what another person mite be experiencing... both so wonderful but also can be very draining and heartbreaking too.. as you do take on the feelings of others.

I am so beyond excited for you that the process has started at the gender clinic.. that you have a plan and you have a path to being Jo.. so wholly and that is just fantastic... I am so happy for you.

Welcome home LD and hope your stay at club Med was awesome xxx I am sure you are happy to be home tho. How gorgeous that she licked the tears from your face.. that is true love isnā€™t it... the love from animals is just so pure and the smallest things melt your heart.

Sometimes if you want to show a sunset or a gorgeous pic that does not have you in you can put as your profile pic if you want to share beautiful things you see along your journeys.

So I am on my way for a 5 day get away with my gorgeous friends and a well overdue relax and catch up time. I am so looking forward to it so please excuse if I am somewhat quiet this weekend.

Hope today is so wonderful for you and you have a gorgeous weekend too.. huge hugs to you.. I do love hugs and freely give them... hahaha

Happy Friday and let you know how my weekend is going.

Hugs hugs hugs and a special one for you LD xx

Sarah xx

Jo8049
Community Member

Hello and thank you again Sarah . That is wonderful that you are having a break with friends . I do hope that you are very refreshed on return .

Will stay quiet till your back . Have an uninterrupted one . That is if you feel like a post go for it but if not don't . lol

I am going to start patches tonight . Was,at clinic for 3 hours . Amazing place a d extraordinarily amazing people . Am now clinic client and off on the next part of the journey . Will fill you in later . Last week emotionally drained me this one took what was left in the tank. Will try to be spiritually still this weekend .

Love and peace beautiful human ( and lady ) hugs and xxxxx from me and licks from LD ( Ratweiler )( just kidding no rat in this wonderful little girl )xxxx

Jo8049
Community Member

Good morning from the recumbent trike at 0315 ( again ). Quiet still and a chill in the air ..

Safe happy and memorable day for all of you .

Much love and endless hugs ( for the first hour after waking ! Then as required xxxx)

Jo&LD ( curled up on chair after her early breaky ) xxx

Mia001
Community Member

Hey everyone,

Im Mia, 21 yrs, disability support worker. I struggle with selfharm, depression and anxiety but have been better lately.

Iā€™m not LGTBI but I love rainbows and unicorns, does that count? šŸ˜‚

Mia xx

Jo8049
Community Member

Hi Mia , Jo here . I posted on your thread early this morning . Check it and come back here or let me know where you are if you want to talk .

Stay safe , Jo&LD ( hug if you need one )

eight
Community Member
playing vg in the dark with the mardi gras stream on my laptop. sadly rather corporate and police heavy as i was thinking but i like how the ones that Aren't are trying to keep the original mardi gras spirit. keeping watch out for my mtt friend. the cosplayers hit the ground in like 30 minutes. i keep looking at the photos ive been sent as they were travelling into syd and going wow! mettaton WILL become real

Jo8049
Community Member

Peace love and the happiest day you can have for everyone .xx

0330 clear sky and the brighter stars beckon . Bright smiley moon high in the east . A noticeable chill now . The ice of winter is coming .

Coffee anyone ? Love to all , safe and gentle Sunday , Jo&LD xxxx

Hope weekend away is awesome and going well. Xxxxxx

Hi Jo

I absolutely love the pic of little dog and soooo happy to see her... adorable. I am having the best time this weekend with friends and the beach and bush walking ... real soul food and very much what I needed....

Hope you are doing well and that you are enjoying your weekend too... just wanted to say hello and see how you were.

hugs as always

Sarahxxx

Jo8049
Community Member

Hi Sarah , so very happy for this break for you . Soul food is nourishing and necessary yet sometimes elusive . Soak it up .XXX

Reading Trauma Cleaner . Oh my , deepest emotions . Talk about it on your return . lol

Every good wish I can think of is yours , relax a d enjoy .

Much love to you and all in this world . ( unlimited hugs when needed , or any time really )

Jo&LD xxxxxxx

Jo8049
Community Member

Peaceful day to all . Abundant love.

Broken cloud ( 0330 ) and little patches of light rain with big drops . 1/3 moon in the east peeking through the clouds . Light and variable winds gusting to 8 knots . Very beautiful , thank you world . Weather from the never never .

A glorious way to start a new day on which I will learn more , and feel more . xxx

Toast honey and coffee , plenty for all .

Sarah , happy day . lap it up xxxx

Lol to all , be safe , more love and hugs to Jo&LD xxxx