Croix Parler

[Croix]

I'd like to use this pace for miscellaneous matters that don't fit elsewhere

Thanks

Croix

[britishtvfan]

hi mmMekitty. i guess i could. i just have stuff going on (like what i wrote in my thread) & it's a bit of pressure. but i could try i suppose. i made a thread about british tv on another forum, only got replies from 1 person, someone supported a couple of posts on it. 

[Croix]

Dear Talya~

I'm really pleased you started a new thread and was all set to read it and post BUT of course I can't find it as it is on another Forum:(   Could you make one here so I can join in? Please  let me know the title of the thread if you make it and I'll search for it.

Ta

Croix

[britishtvfan]

hi Croix.

i've been thinking about it but i'm just not sure, i'm just miserable with things going on - the stuff on my thread, bad sinus i have (i'm seeing a gp on feb 14 about that) & other things.

[mmMekitty]

Hi Tealflowers

How was it talking to that person on the other forum? 

Of-course, it's up to you. No pressure. you decide what you would like to do here.

I understand there are other things going on for you. It's okay to have a think about making another Discussion, maybe next month, instead of now? Or maybe you'd like a little diversion from those other things going on?

I thought, maybe you wanted to have more in your life to focus on? I'm thinking, if yu have only one thing to focus all your attention on, & it becomes the only thing you care about, pretty soon you can need it more than is healthy. I feel maybe that's what's been happening lately.

What do you think?

Hugzies

mmMekitty

[Croix]

Dear Tayla~

Having sinus problems can make anyone miserable, I hope you get it sorted soon.

The reason I've been rabbiting on about your own thread is not so much making the thread itself - which I agree might be difficult to start - but more along the lines I think you need other good things in your life to concentrate on, so the horrible experience with that person in the forum does not take up so much of your attention.

I tend to be somone that does focus too much on any one unpleasant thing so I take precautions and have several things on the go at the same time, so I have to switch mental tracks, and that seems to work quite well - for me at least.

Do you think there are other things you might do to take your mind off this?

BTW how is your dog getting on now?

Croix

[britishtvfan]

hi Croix & mmMekitty.

my dog is better, it only lasted a few days, thanks. i can't stop thinking about this stuff with that girl in the UK. i haven't heard from her & neither has my friend, nothing. idk if she's ignoring us on purpose, if she's taking time off social media, if something's happened. i was thinking of contacting the site i talked to her on to see if they can check if she's okay. idk how else to contact her. she did have an account on another site but i can't remember the username & idk if she still has it. she has some profile on some art website but it doesn't look like she's been active there either. i just want this drama to stop with her & start fresh, i don't see why it's so hard.

[Croix]

Dear Tayla~

I guess mmMekitty and I both think you have done all you can about the girl in the UK. To keep on concentrating on it when you don't know the facts is not good. For a start you begin to doubt yourself, you feel frustrated and helpless, and their is the anxiety of open-ended waiting

It is a horrible position to be in and being able to distract yourself from these constant thoughts can only be good. By thinking of other things you'll not miss out on anything as if she wanted to contact you or your friend she would.

I'm not suggesting you give up, simply that you devote time to other things that make your life more pleasant and it would be really good if you could come up wiht a suggestion or two of things you can do

As an example you may wish to see if there are other TV shows you had forgotten but liked. I use the Nostaligiacentral website as it lists a lot of British TV by decade. You may have a similar site yourself, if so I'd be interested to know

Soy to keep harping on distraction, however I simply want you to feel better and enjoy life.

Croix

[britishtvfan]

i am trying to distract myself Croix but it's hard. things remind me of her, like the shows we talked about & the actors. i try to still enjoy them but it's not the same. i miss her for the good things & i want that back. & yeah you're right she could get in contact with me but she hasn't replied to my friend on Instagram that she messaged herself, also me on Instagram but she doesn't know it's me. idk if she's having time off social media or something's happened to her. she's on this site for artwork that she makes & she hasn't been on there since Jan 12 it says, when she sent someone a badge on there. last time my friend heard from her was Jan 21. i just hope she's ok. she had a Discord but i can't remember her username. i can't let go of her. it's different to other people. it made me happy talking with her & she said the same but i guess that was a lie. no one understands.

[britishtvfan]

i posted an update on my thread. i'm just so hurt.

[mmMekitty]

Hi Croix

I have come to your place for a rest & to bring you that penguin you have earned for your foul gameplay! This penguin is a Yellow Card Penguin. Two more & you'll earn a Red Card Penguin, which is three times as noisy & messy as any three Yellow Card Penguins compined. & if you have ever tried combining three Yellow Card Penguins you will know how noisy & messy that can get.

Carp on a bit, do I? Well, let me tell you it's "Salmenchanted evening" anyway!

That settled?

You can have some hugzies, you & Mrs C.

& Group Furries Hugzies too! Cats, dogs, birds, (including penguins), even fish - though they might practise a little sensible caution around me ... it's a little chaotic mess of egs, wings, webbed feet, beaks & snouts .. hehehe