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Phobia about the dentist

CMF
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I am prone to anxiety. I have always been scared of the dentist.  I put off going until I'm in a desperate situation.  When my kids were younger and I took them for their first visits I found the courage to go myself- if they can do it so an I.  I was so proud of myself, I did it.  I haven't been back for years and now find myself in a situation where I need to go. I have booked the appointment, it's in a week and a half, earliest I could get. I am freaking out. It's a check up and cLean but I have a problem with my gum. I'm scared.  Scared I may lose a tooth, scared how bad it will be. I keep telling myself whatever happens can be dealt with, stop pre empting things that may happen etc but I'm scared, full on anxiety.  Why did I leave it so long to go, what if I lose a tooth, what will they do to me?  I'm so stupid for it going for do long. I'm so scared now. I tell my self people go all the time and have things done. Why am I so scared? I kNow facing fear is a way to overcome it but I'm freaking out, don't wNt to wake up sick every morning which I knew would happen.  

Anyone else experienced this? How did you cope?

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Cherpieus
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I too have a fear about going to the dentist.  I put it off until it gets really bad.

I would have panic attacks in the chair and faint if I have to have a needle.  Then I would be so embarrassed that I would change dentists. I even feel the anxiety just being in a dental surgery... it's hard for me to even take my kids to the dentist but I force myself to do this.

I've found a very understanding young dentist now but in any case I still put it off. I had to have a tooth removed and was supposed to go back to get an implant but I just haven't been able to do it. 

The one thing that helped me in the past was a visit to my GP who gave me some medication to take before I went to calm me down. Then I got someone to drive me there and back.  I usually then have to go to bed for the rest of the day. 

 

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi

thank you so much for sharing this with me. 

Cmf