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I have been struggling with over thinking for a long time.im an event or something happens during the day at work I can't switch off and think about it for far to long.then I worry that I'm leaning on people to much and worry the will get sick of me any advice
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Glad to hear you've found comfort in the forums, Rosm. As always, please keep chatting with us more if you'd like.
SB
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Hi Rosm_
Wondering if it might help to re-frame over thinking. I believe just about everyone has a natural analyst in them. So, the question becomes 'Is the analyst in me a full time worker, part time worker or casual worker?'. I've found it depends on the circumstances.
The analyst in me tends to work full time when I'm facing a deeply depressing, tormenting or stressful situation. It'll analyse the hell out of everything, so as to reach some heavenly conclusion (aka an inspiring groundbreaking revelation that leads my life to change for the better). A major trigger for the full time work is sitting down without distraction. In other words doing nothing other than focusing on what I feel compelled to analyse. This can also be called 'Meditating on a problem'. Meditation is basically about giving something your full 100% focus. You can meditate on your breath, on clouds, on the feeling of the wind or how certain music leads you to feel or, as Flop mentions, what's right in front of you. Pretty much anything, basically. Unfortunately problem meditation doesn't feel quite as calming, fluffy, flowing, uplifting or grounding.
If you have a natural analyst in you, another question could be 'What other facets make up who I am?'. Just say you have a natural wonderer in you that wonders about nature or a daydreamer in you that loves to imagine amusing or perhaps magical scenarios. The reason I mention these other facets of self is based on them being a distraction from overthinking. It's almost impossible to channel the analyst in us and the child like daydreamer, for example, at the same time. So, the daydreamer overrides the analyst. I know, easier said than done at times (practicing such a thing), especially if we're under stress when it comes to trying to work out/analyse a solution to a problem. Sometimes this strategy becomes simply about having a break from thinking too much. It's a chance for our nervous system to relax a little.
While daydreaming is said to be related to the alpha brain wave state, a state in which solutions can naturally come to mind without thinking, meditating on our imagination can occasionally produce some helpful insight.
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Hi Rosm,
I am sorry you are going through this, it seems very stressful for you. You may be experiencing anxiety, where you feel anxious or stressed over small things. It's OK, I get it too.
Make sure you see your GP or doctor if you have not already, they might be able to help you.
I hope you feel better soon,
Jaz xx
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Jaz thanks for your kind words, seeing my doctor is my next step, its actually is very upsetting as I know i want to to be the best I can but it sort of over powers me.as it takes me half the night to go through the events of my day.
Many thanks
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Hi Rosm,
Thank you for sharing your post with us and I know in saying that you would not be alone in these feelings! It could be important to think about challenging these thoughts and this might make you feel less distressed. I see that members below have suggested reaching out to a counsellor. I think this is a fantastic idea to help with over thinking. It certainly can't hurt, otherwise just know the forums are always here to listen to you!
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