Hi Jaybird27,
I'm sad to hear that you have come to the conclusion that men are dangerous. I understand it is a product of your circumstances, all people can be dangerous, men and women. The major difference is that where men have historically used physical violence or actions to resolve an issue, whereas women have been known to use verbal techniques, through which both sexes achieve their manipulative goals. Some people are genuinely nice, I personally have several friends at either edge of the spectrum, at times good for perspective, however I know who I would rather hand around with, the people who treat me as I would treat them, as family.
@Dottibluebell - Awesome to hear that you feel a level of comfort talking to your male nurse, it's a fantastic start, and proof that not all fellas are bad people. There are quite a few of us left that are actually nice, we can be hard to find at times as it is frustrating filtering out people who don't compliment your views on life and sometimes have our shields up but a few kind words and a smile will usually open us up
Physical violence, even a threat or subtle passing mention of it is never acceptable, EVER. It's the principle of the matter, if you care for someone you never need to ever raise a hand in anger, only to wipe away a tear and bring you closer to remind you that everything is going to be ok.
