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Anxiety and Covid 19

Sarahbelle
Community Member

Hi.

I am extremely anxious about the current covid pandemic.

Feel as though it is living in my brain but my body feels the symptoms.

It causes me such panic and terror and all consuming

Trying to challenge my thinking but ver hard.

Any one else feel this. Any advice appreciated.

Thankyou.

278 Replies 278

Hi everyone,

Sarahbelle - Some days are like that. I feel you. Some days I can cope really well and on other days COVID is on my mind. I think that you've grown so much and some days are harder than others. I'm glad you took the time to write how you felt here though. I think in a way that is self-care. We are listening and we care about you!

Gent- I can't even imagine how difficult and challenging this current climate is on your journey and also dealing with your 'beast'. I like the way that you described that though. I guess even for myself anxiety is my beast. It feels very rewarding when I can 'tame' it. Thank you for giving your perspective about that. You are so right, we look out for each other!

Gems- Hope you are well!

Sarahbelle
Community Member

Thanks missep you are spot on, some days are like that. They come from who knows where and hit like a truck. I did bounce back better in the afternoon and today feel okay, I think it has helped that I got a good nights sleep. My best defense is to get busy to stop the intrusive thoughts and this also helps my body to start to calm - not easy but with practice does help.

Gent I remember my first post it was really hard but in some way freeing because others we have never met really care. On these forums we can see this is where we are not alone and "in this together".

Missep, Gems and Gent hope your day brings some sunshine and a butterfly.

Take care,

Sarahbelle.

Gent
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Thank you to all for supportive comments.

Everyone says we are all in this together, but we need to stick together to stay together, we need to remember no matter who we are all of us hurt all of us suffer we are all human, we all care in some way.

Just reading posts the last few days has helped me feel less alone in my thoughts,stay safe take care and thanks

Gent
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Sarahbelle said:

Hi.

I am extremely anxious about the current covid pandemic.

Feel as though it is living in my brain but my body feels the symptoms.

It causes me such panic and terror and all consuming

Trying to challenge my thinking but ver hard.

Any one else feel this. Any advice appreciated.

Thank you Hi

Just read this post seems appropriate to my feeling right now, Watching news and seeing the anti maskers and the conspiracy theorists virus not real hoax numbers. Then why am I scared shitless everytime I have to go see one of my doctors for my chronic conditions appoinntments that have to be completed for my insurance to pay 75% of minimum wage, I am almost 62 and I do not remember anythimg in life that has scared or worried me this much how do we wake these people up? look at this it is real please.

Sarahbelle
Community Member

Good Morning All,

Gent, The post of mine you have referred to was me at a very vulnerable and frightening time so I do get what you are saying. Since then I have been able to get support and have put some strategies in place which are helpful for me. This forum and knowing others were there to help me was wonderful. It took time and effort but now am feeling more peaceful within. I still have difficult days with my mind on the run.

I understand your fear at this time and it is not easy. In Victoria I feel most people are very frustrated with those not following the new rules as it puts so many at risk.

One important thing I learnt was perspective - being able to see what is real and what I can control. These things for me are - limiting media - taking some peaceful time such as walking my dog, doing a craft, meditating and going to a safe place in my mind ----anything that is distracting is good. When you feel a bad thought get busy ---- it takes a lot of practice. Start small do something you enjoy.

I am sorry things are so hard for you at the moment.

Take care, Sarahbelle.

Hi all,

I hope everyone had a relaxing weekend, and those on the South Coast managed to stay dry! I attempted to go away for the weekend to Jervis Bay just to clear my head a bit, but alas there was incredible flooding! Still a nice change of scenery.

Gent, so glad to have you here with us. As Sarahbelle has said, these are difficult times but the forums can be a real source of strength. Hope you'll stick around and keep chatting with us! As you say, we need to walk the walk and not just talk the talk about being all in this together.

Sarahbelle, I'm sorry to reply so late but I'm glad to hear that your difficult day did at least pass (as they all must). I am worried but hopeful for Victoria, though I have to admit puzzled why NSW has been spared a similar fate despite not doing social distancing measure markedly better. I think your point about a good nights' sleep is key. I once heard on a podcast some people joking about how sleep (especially a nap) is like a train stop for your emotions to get off and new ones to get on. Often I find that I feel like a new person after a sleep or a meal, though of course these don't always do the trick. I'm so impressed and inspired by your determination and discipline to not let the dark thoughts win. It's something I get a lot of strength from in trying to do the same thing in my own life.

Missep, lovely as always to hear from you. Great point about the unexpected perk of masks lol! I think it's fascinating how we're all learning to be a bit more expressive with our eyes and hands now that our mouths and nose are covered. Reminds me a bit of the difference between sound and silent films, where actors would have to make big, dramatic movements to convey emotion because they couldn't talk!

Thinking of you all warmly.

Gems

Sarahbelle
Community Member

Just a friendly Hello to you all,

Gem's I hope that the change of scenery helped you to have a break from the everyday and recharged you. Shame about the weather for you, however, the wind and rain on the coast can be mesmerizing. - cannot wait till I can once again move more than 5K from home - patience is the key and we will get there.

I loved your analogy of sleep/rest being like a train stop for the emotions.

Missep I have bought some cute face masks - It is amazing how they are taking off and people are having a bit of fun and creativity with them - seems to make the seriousness of wearing them more bearable. Masks are definately becoming the new makeup.

Gent I hope your days are becoming a little lighter amid all the concerns and you are finding something that you can enjoy doing.

Take care,

Sarahbelle.

Hi everyone!

I hope you are doing well. I think that we are all showing personal growth and great strength! We are supporting each other and trying our best to stay afloat of these waves that go up and down (literally and metaphorically)

I have some positive news though....I got engaged the other day! 😄

Looking forward to hearing from you guys! I always enjoy our chats 🙂

Trish2
Community Member

Hi all! I hope your all doing okay in these times 🙂

its nice to see I'm not the only one dealing with the fear around having covid.

There are so many times I've felt this way and eventually it has passed (which I feel grateful for every time), but the uncertainty of it being the actual virus aways gets to me whenever it does happen. I'm an essential worker which definitely doesn't help the situation since I'm required to be out of the house 3 days a week minimum, and I interact with many people in a day. I've actually even considered if I could be a hypochondriac a few times just in general, so that definitely doesn't help the situation any more either.

I've noticed tonight in particular that I have completely lost my appetite, which is weird for me after a day at work since I'm usually always ready to eat! Does anyone else feel this way when they're anxious? I also feel generally uncomfortable as my chest might be feeling odd/tense. its hard to pinpoint exactly where I feel uncomfortable sometimes but I get that feeling occasionally? I wanna think I'm just being anxious about the way I'm physically feeling but It concerns me. I also wanted to know if there were any good tips on how to avoid obsessing over feeling physically unusual? Would love to see what you guys think of this!

Trish

Sarahbelle
Community Member

Hello and welcome Trish,

It is amazing how when we are anxious and frightened about COVID our body can feel the symptoms as you have explained. it can be terrifying and can easily cause distress and panic. What helped me initially was seeing my Doctor and having a COVID test for reassurance. After this I learnt to recognise my anxiety and even if I felt the symptoms understand my anxiety was causing them (not easy and takes time). My Doctor also referred me to a Psychologist which has been so helpful in giving me strategies to manage.

It is also a good idea to limit the amount of media you watch - I went down to hearing daily numbers only. Now am able to handle more however still limit the amount. When talking with others too try not to always talk COVID as you can get caught in their anxiety too. Hope this is helpful.

Trish it is such a trying time for all. This forum and people I have connected with on it are so supportive, it has been a great source of strength to me.

Take care,

Sarahbelle.