How to deal with Inlaws rejecting my children.
Imo the remedy is not unlike other situations with blood relatives and that is to accept that you can't make them like you so, form family around you that deserve your commitment.
Family doesn't have to be relatives. But for the sake of your partner I'd maintain basic communication. I would withdraw from family activities and create my new family based on what love and care we exchange, not based on status.
I hope that helps.
Hello Danny1234, the situation you're in doesn't have a simple reason nor answer why I'm sorry to say because there could be many different variables why the age difference between your partner's brother's kids compared to how old your kids are, because looking after children who are advanced and able to entertain themselves with the modern day technology is different to kids who need to be fed.
Forgive me if this is far from reality, but if it was me, I'd confront them and ask them why.
Hope I haven't upset you because that's not my intention.