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Homelessness and human empathy
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A forum I'm a member of had a post that included a link. That link was of a location in a National Park, a campsite where it was home for a homeless man. The area, about the size of a medium garage was scattered with litter, an old broken down car, facies in a bucket and tied up tarps for shelter.
A local member of the public complained to rangers and the latter attended to leave a notice for him to move and clean up the area (he wasnt present). So there was 9 replies to this members post on the forum. To be a member of this forum you would likely own a powerful tow car and caravan hence able to afford big fuel bills etc. Surprisingly and thankfully there was 3 replies that suggested the hermit might have mental health issues and needs help. Then 6 others had criticisms like-
- the man should bury his waste matter
- it's a National Park, he shouldn't be there
- he should pay for removal of the trash
- why didnt he ask for help?
Those 6 people 66% of the replies, showed little if any empathy or consider possibilities of how the hermit ended up in that living state. They hadnt met the man (as the rangers nor complainant hadnt either) so their information was based purely on an illegal campsite. Have humans dropped their standards of compassion to replace it with judgement with so little effort?
Obviously my reply included that benefit of the doubt should be exercised in all cases as the man could need empathy, a arm around his shoulder etc as priority. Trash accumulated can always be removed by Rotary, Lions club and volunteers so that is not the main focus or shouldn't be.
What is your take on society's shift to be less empathetic overall to people not only with mental health issues but towards homeless people of which is growing extraordinary in numbers. What can we do to change culture within a care less society?
TonyWK
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Hi Tony,
Great Post and thank you for raising this complex issue.
I will start with, when I was growing up, we often heard of and saw what were 'street kids'. We were led to believe that these kids chose to run away from a good home and live on the streets. The awful truth was that it was safer to sleep rough than in the house that they had fled.
I chose to be honest with my own children and when they asked me about homeless people, rough sleepers and runaways.
I recall walking through Martin Place with my primary school aged kids and my daughter asked about a rough sleeper outside of the Louis Vuitton store. I told her that he was homeless and it was safer for him to sleep during the day.
As the kids got older and saw rough sleepers in and around the city streets, they too observed that everyone just walked on past. Occasionally some would drop a few coins in their cup. But we all seem helpless in offering any real help.
With the recent fire and flood disasters we are empathic towards families with children having to live in caravans and tents. But what of the homeless men? It appears that they get pushed further and further down our list of priorities.
I changed my own way of thinking, as I too could become homeless. Homeless women of my age are increasing in number. I do worry whether I have enough to sustain me into my elder years. Would my children help me?
The Care Less Society possibly wrongfully believes that someone else will fix it. The government and the charities certainly are not keeping up with the demand. I often was mattresses in and around the car park at my work place. I soon realised that these belonged to rough sleepers. It is confronting and I do care, but what can I do to help?
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Thankyou Fiatlux, interesting reply.
We are limited to how to help, besides most of us are in a better position we have our own challenges.
As for concern of our own old age please google-
Beyondblue topic worry worry worry
We see empty halls but homeless struggle to find a roof, nothing makes sense.
I don't have the answers, what I do know is the majority of people don't understand, don't try to and don't won't to.
TonyWK