Hi and welcome Johnny!
It's great to see you here, would you like to tell us a little about yourself? Would love to get to know you and help you feel more comfortable. Pull up a chair and shoot the breeze for a while. 🙂
This thread's more of a social space for LGBTI folk. The following thread might be more suited to your querie;
'LGBT+ members - got a question - need somewhere to start - here is the place' in the Sexuality and Gender Identity Section.
..or a thread of your own might fit the bill better. It's up to you..I'll keep an eye out for you.
In the meantime, reading thru some of this thread might help you to feel at home. There's also plenty of previous threads about your issue throughout the forum as it's quite a common dilemma bought up by new members.
Some key words in the search function at the top right hand side of the page could bare fruit. Take your time looking around ok.
I'm Sez, a mature bi woman. I'm online most days and call in here when I see a new post or check on how everyone's going. Feel free to chat anytime, though there may be a delay between replies due to offline commitments. Don't worry, eventually we'll be back as Arnie says..
Take care;
Sez
