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harro123
Community Member

Hi everyone,

I'm not really sure what to say on here so I'm just going to speak my mind. I've been really struggling lately with my mental health. I've always had anxiety but I've never had struggled this bad and honestly, I'm feeling really helpless. I've always been the person my friends come and talk to if they are struggling but now I'm on the other side and I'm struggling with that thought. I also don't want to burden them with my struggles with anxiety, especially my roommate. I know it shouldn't be a problem but I just can't bring myself to tell my friends how I'm really doing at times. They know I'm dealing with anxiety and I am seeing professional help but I'm still feeling helpless. I want to talk to them but I hate the idea of them being worried about me. Also, my GP prescribed me antidepressants and I don't know if I should get a second opinion on whether or not I need to be medicated. Who should I go to about the second opinion?

Thank you for taking the time to read this thread.

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Tori_nawec
Community Member

Hey there,

thanks for reaching out 🙂

remember that your feelings are valid. I also struggled with this for a long time, I couldn’t bring myself to tell my family my real feelings of anxiety and would hide it, resulting in even worse feelings.

you are not a burden. anyone who truely cares for you, will be there to help you through these feelings. It’s nice to talk about it and get it off your chest to your friends, at whatever pace you like. Regardless, they will worry but it’s because they care. and it’s not a bad thing. you don’t have to tell them details if you don’t wish to, just explain you’re going through a hard time at the moment. I know they will understand.

I would advise talking to your therapist about the need for medication. There are pros and cons to it, but it’s up to the individual, so it’s hard to say. There are many different factors to consider.. it’s something to research and think about, but hopefully you are already trying other strategies to cope with your anxious feelings before this step.. (mindfulness, grounding, exercise, diet, positive self talk, etc)

hope I helped a little. 🙂