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Anxiety? Or am I being dramatic?

BSL
Community Member

Hi everyone, this is my first time posting and I'd really like to to get others opinions on what I've been experiencing lately.

For the past 3 months, but the last 4 weeks in particular, I have been feeling incredibly anxious. It's this feeling of dread and nervousness in my stomach that I cant shake, no matter what I try. It's as though I'm waiting for something awful to happen, and I have horrible butterflies all the time. I've tried changing my diet, exercising and meditating but these only seem to help temporarily, and the feeling always comes back. Lately the anxiousness has increased to the point where I feel like I might cry, I can't catch my breath or I feel faint, and I can't draw my mind back from this overwhelming feeling in my stomach, even though I can't figure out what is causing it. Uni, work and my relationship are all stressful, but I don't feel as though there has been a dramatic change in any of these areas that would warrant the feelings that I have, and when I try and locate a direct cause I struggle to find it.

Another issue is this anxiety is causing me to become seriously unmotivated. Now whenever I think about anything even slightly stressful such as uni, work or driving lessons it makes me feel so sick that I can't bring myself to attend class or go to work and I'll spend hours just laying around at home.

What I want to know is does this sound like an anxiety disorder, or just usual stress that I need to work harder at overcoming? It doesn't feel normal to me, but I also don't feel like I'm experiencing overly dramatic symptoms such as panic attacks, and I am fine (almost better) when I'm socialising.

Thank you!

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BSL
Community Member
Also, is anyone able to explain why even though I know doing some uni work or booking a driving lesson etc. might help reduce my stress and anxiety, I STILL can't bring myself to do it????

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi BSL and welcome,

sorry you are experiencing these feelings, I know they are no fun at all. It does sound like anxiety but the best thing to do is to see your GP and have a chat. You may get a referral to see a counsellor who can help you sort out your thoughts, triggers and give you ways to deal with them. There is also an app called 'smiling mind' which is good for relaxation. Exercise and diet are also important.

wishing you all be best.

cmf

BSL
Community Member

Hi CMF

I have tried smiling mind and do really enjoy the app, so I'll continue to do that along with the exercise and try to find a doctor I feel confident talking to.

Thanks for your reply

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi again BSL,

I'm glad you find the app helpful. I also take a b complex, fish oil and magnesium. I find walking good. Do you enjoy any hobbies or sport. I hope you can keep us updated on your progress. There is a thread here on mindfulness and you are very welcome to join us in the BB cafe or circle of friendship threads in the social zone. They are threads where we just chill to take a break from the hard stuff. It can be nice to be around others who understand.

Hope you have a good day.

Cmf