Parents fighting. Again.
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Hello Anonymouszebra, being in a position like this makes you feel very uncomfortable and unsure of what to do, but if it happens regularly over the smallest minute issue then it's best to not try and break them up.
The safest option for you is to go to a friends house and if you can also take your siblings because your parents need to understand that behaving this way is not acceptable for their family.
You can leave a note telling them how you are feeling and if they don't want to improve their relationship then perhaps they should about separating while having different types of counselling for each other.
Sometimes couple counselling is suggested, however, in some circumstances, it may be better to have individual therapy and then couple counselling and I say this because both are going to be adamant they are in the right.
If you and your siblings can contact Kids Helpline as Sophie has suggested this may help you.
This is an unfortunate situation for you but hope you can get back to us whenever you are available.
Thanks for the reply.
I don't really have a getaway that is accessible right now, and currently they are not speaking to each other, which is causing a build up of tension since they are both in the house. It's to an extent that I don't have the will to complete my homework, or do any activity due to stress it's putting.
We appreciate you reaching back on the forums. We’ve noticed that you have started to share your journey in your other thread, I don't know where this is going. So that our community can best understand your current situation and provide the most appropriate support, we're going to close this thread so that you can continue this discussion over there.
Thanks for being open here, anonymouszebra. We hope the kind words and understanding of this community on your threads has brought some comfort.