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Hey, hello,
I am really blunt and I don't write very well so I don't want to scare you there will be others that will come.
I have two daughters that I love to the moon and back. ATM I can't stand them because of their age,and they hate me.
What I think is your mum has treated you like a best friend,partner,even her own mother.
Best thing for YOU is to get some help from a professional for YOU first.and so you can get help for your mum.
keep posting,you will get some great help here.
you are and have been doing a great job.
This is your life too,thanks for posting.
Later
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No probs,
and you are doing nothing wrong btw😘
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My son and I share a very close relationship, I can relate. My mental illness has driven us apart due to my erratic behaviours during an episode. I'm working hard to fix me, my condition is not his problem but has affected him. As his mother, it is my duty to look after my health so it does not burden him. When my son had to get away from me, it was hard to accept but I understood. And it was healthy that he took action to look after himself. Sometimes when us parents are unwell, we look to our kids as you are our rocks. But it is necessary that you move forward in your own lives in your own way. Illness prevents us accepting that, and we feel abandoned. But you are not abandoning us by having your own lives. You sound like a wonderful, loving daughter to be so concerned. Hold onto that love even if mum is sometimes being irrational in her expectations. I'm guilty of doing that myself but I'm slowly working on it.