i feel as if i’ve been led on by someone and then they’ve switched up
and chosen someone else to favour.i have an online friend who i’ve been
best friends with for over a year now, i know how to be safe online and
meeting people and avoiding creeps, ...
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i feel as if i’ve been led on by someone and then they’ve switched up
and chosen someone else to favour.i have an online friend who i’ve been
best friends with for over a year now, i know how to be safe online and
meeting people and avoiding creeps, so don’t criticise me. Our
friendship is a flirty friendship so we regularly will share a flirty
line and have a laugh, although some of the things this friend had said
to me has made me question what we were. It started to go downhill when
i told this friend I was bisexual and that had only recognised myself as
bi for around a month, she was very chill and happy with it, and that
was the end of that conversation. Around a week or two later she wants
to talk to me and tells me that she thinks she is pansexual, saying she
doesn’t care about someone’s gender when she dates them though she has
never dated anyone that was not a guy before, i’m chill and happy with
this fact, what throws me off is she says “i’ve always been attracted to
you though”, i feel confused at this and didn’t know how to take it as
no one had ever expressed something like that to me so i am unsure how
to handle that, i say thank you and carry on with the conversation,
though that lingers in my mind forever.Some times passes, about a month
or two maybe, things are ok, she meets this guy and i’m already
skeptical because i know this friend never adds people a lot, im a bit
worried for her, i play games with her and this guy finding out he is
also struggling at home, a week goes past and she tells me she is dating
him, i find this out during school and break down. I know this friend
has had horrible experiences in the past with relationships so i am
immediately worried to my stomach, having to miss out on last period and
sit in the school office crying sorting myself out. This guy had
previously tried to scam her in a game and she had told me the night
before that she didn’t want to date him, i desperately did not want my
friend to do something she didn’t want to do or that she would regret,
and what do you know. I’m terrified that this guy is going to try scam
my friend of not only her game items but her time and effort, obviously
i do not like this guy because im worried for my friend, i know he is
struggling so from my veiw it looks like she has decided to date him out
of guilt because he needs somone, although this pisses me off because i
thought id finally found my platonic somone. After this i talk to her,
and start to distance myself from her and this guy. I’m also told of
family isssues that my aunty and uncle had split up, i really love my
aunty, she is a best friend to me so that made me distance from not only
her but pretty much everyone in my life. I’m online not as much, in
which she and apparently a lot of my other friends notice so she decides
to talk to me. I use the family issues as an excuse, i might have
slightly mentioned about the guy too, i don’t remember. She says it’s ok
she wanted to know why i was distancing not to stop doing it. Since that
conversation i felt she has been distancing from me and ive asked her if
I have done something, as im typing this im waiting for a reply. i see
her online heaaapss, with her boyfriend 99% of the time, i hate it, i
feel replaced, jealous, stripped from something i was happy with. all
this has been severely affecting my own mental health, but im one of
those people who cry whenever they get asked if they’re ok, so instead i
reached a resort of saying all this on this website where im not under
as much pressure.Overall, i feel like i just need somone to be there for
me, somone new, everyone i already know is not fit for the job as i once
thought they were. i need somone.there is probably heaps of stuff i
missed while typing this, but this is briefly what happened without
mentioning details.
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