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Newbies guide: 5 tips for getting the most out of the forums (UPDATED)

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey everyone,

Here’s 5 tips for new and old members alike to help you get the most out of your forum experience. 

1. A good title makes the difference

Just like a headline in a newspaper, when scanning the dozens of threads to click into, it’s only natural that people will choose the ones that resonate with them most. A title that entices the reader, or asks a question, is likely to get a better result than something non-descriptive like “Depression” or “I don't know what to do”. If you think you’re not good at choosing titles, leave it till last. Spend time writing your post, then perhaps choose a sentence from what you’ve written as the title.

2. Join in threads that have already been posted

We all have our own unique stories, but part of the reason for joining a forum like this one is because you know that you will have a lot in common with others who are posting. Before starting a new thread, have a look through the current topics being discussed and see if there’s a conversation you can join in with. It can be quite common to have a handful of very similar threads happening at any one time, with members seemingly unaware that there are others right there who are going through the same thing.  Talking to other members on their threads is a great way of getting yourself known so that when you post a thread of your own, people may respond quicker because they recognise your name and feel they know you.

3. Choose the most appropriate section for your post

Many people browse the forums looking for stories specifically to do with pregnancy and parenting, employment, grief, loss, separation etc.  Going straight for the “Depression” section may seem like the easiest option, but this section is often the busiest, so your post is more likely to get lost among the threads. Making good use of the different forum sections not only helps keep the forum relevant, but you’re more likely to find others who are going through the same experiences as you.  Also, if you're wanting to discuss issues of trauma, abuse, suicidal thoughts or self-harm, it's really important you post in the designated section to avoid triggering others who may not wish to read about these topics.

4. Try and keep it short!

Sometimes the hardest thing to do. We have a forced 2,500 character limit on the submission form (about the size of one whole typed A4 page). Posts that go on for longer than one screen, where people have to scroll in order to read, run the risk of people skimming your post and not reading it. Break up your paragraphs as well - big blocks of text with no breaks are equally intimidating for others to read, as is txt language and abbreviations (It's like talking to someone in person and not taking breaths or pauses). Please don't try and cheat the limit by submitting multiple-part posts...it only creates more work for our moderators who have to clean the forum up. Forums are about dialogue, not monologue. You'll have plenty of time to tell your story if you're patient, stick around, and take the time to discuss, not broadcast! 😛 

5. Stick to one thread for support

When seeking support on the forums, we really encourage members to use one thread rather than starting new ones all the time.  It's really difficult for the community to keep up with your story if you have a lot of threads going at once, and you may find yourself having to repeat information if your story is spread across the forum - sometimes our members will be repeating themselves as well if it's an issue you've had previously.  Help us to support you by keeping to one thread, even if you're returning here after a period of time.  There's a lot of value in seeing how someone's story evolves over time, and when facing a new crisis it's helpful to scroll back and see how you've coped previously.

Please feel free to share your own tips below on how to get involved in the community and get the best out of your time online.





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Emmy_
Community Member

Question: sorry if it's a silly one.

on a thread- if there's 10 pages is there a way to go to page 3 (just as an example).

I can only seem to ever go from the first page to the last page.

Thanks Chris.

Emmy 🙂

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Emmy, if you're on a desktop machine it's easy to choose which page as all the page numbers are displayed. On mobile, there's not as much room so there are just the two options at the moment:

<< >> double arrows will take you to the very end or very beginning of the thread

< > single arrows will take you to the previous or next page

Emmy_
Community Member
Ok thanks Chris. Will mobile ever have page numbers shown?

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

We're working on getting it fixed but I don't have a timeframe at the moment unfortunately.

One workaround, which isn't the easiest, is to go into the URL at the top of the page and type in the page number you want to skip to.

For example, on this thread:

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/welcome-and-orientation/new-here-please-read-3-tips-for-getting-the-most-out-of-the-forums/page/2#qkz12nHzvGGEbv8AAOnT_A

Change the number after page/ from 2 to whichever page you want to skip to.

Emmy_
Community Member
Thanks for this Chris 🙂 Hope you're well.

Emmy_
Community Member

OMG i'm using my laptop instead of mobile phone....so much easier.

But nice to know if i'm out I can always use the phone 🙂

Bec775
Community Member
Thank you. It all seems overwhelming. This helps.

Emmy_
Community Member

Mobile beyond blue format now has the arrows to go between individual pages or jump from first to last page. this is really good!!! 🙂 Thank beyond blue IT team.

Flavio
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hi Chris, I have just registered on this community as I have just beaten extreme depression. 2 Years of anxiety and depression, something you wouldn't want your worst enemy to have. I have had a great life, have a great family (which I now appreciate) and and a great career as a professional. I have seen the light that there is more to life than success in business and now I want to give back to people who need support and maybe save someone, just like I was saved. I would love to share my story, which I have documented. Can you please guide me on how I can help people in need and/or share my story on how I beat this terrible illness. Thanks Flavio

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hi Flavio, welcome to the community and great to hear you're in a position where you feel able to provide support for others. My best suggestion would be to get involved in the community here. We have many people daily seeking support for depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and other related life issues. Have a read through the threads and provide some insights about what worked for you to recover. Feel free to start your own thread detailing your own recovery story as well.