My 26yr old son, has a speech learning impairment, he looks and is quite bright, but has slow processing, this leads to confusion.
He comes across initially intelligent and confident, carrismatic as well, this is all short lived when expectations overwhelm him, and his go to are anger 😠 outbursts which result in breakingthings.
He blames me for my poor life choices, which have made him how he is...
Condensing a lifetime of trying to survive and navigate this existance, I find I've let him down, I don't plan well clearly.
How to help him ????
Currently living in rented property took a few years of homelessness to get to this point, re inventing myself to have a permanent job, functioning enough to provide safe environment, so he can get himself together. Which I struggle to maintain myself, his siblings avoid him as they see him as a selfish and dope smoking basically.
atm I am fearful of his outbursts, he just lost another job due to a rage incident.
He doesn't listen to me, hasn't for years.
He has not harmed a person or me but, I feel totally lost and bewildered that this beautiful person has this out of control terrifying side.
It's a cry for help 😢 and I don't know how. I've not done life well.
