Hi Farmer our beautiful Grandy and all ☺
Happy birthday dear Farmer. I hope you have a lovely day free of worry and hurt.
Hope it works out well for your wife. Thzt must be quite awkward keeping the foot elevated so high.
You're working very hard. Good man.
I'm so glad the sisters being a help. She sounds like a good soul.
Hope it's a nice calm sunny day for you where you are.
Good on you staying strong. That's the way.
Take care and try hard to think of the good things around you. Not easy is it but it gives your mind a rest even for a few seconds and some peace that you well deserve.
See you later ☺
I'm really sorry that you've been through alot, but you sound like a really good person, trying to help kids do better and get a good education. Really touched by the many good things you're doing and it's given me strength today. Wishing you a belated birthday and a speedy recovery for your wife. Hope that things will get better for a kind person like you and your family.
Hi Farmer and everyone 😊
I'm glad hearing better tomorrows supportive post was a help to you. Supports very powerful isn't it. You deserve as much help as possible.
I feel the time will come that she'll fall. She certainly makes it hard but that I hope can only last for so long.
Your lawyers going to do his best with her, I wouldn't be surprised if she's getting a bit nervous.
How beautiful your precious time with her sister she really sounds lovely.
Stay strong Farmer you're doing incredibly well holding through this horrible rot.
Best to your wife family and of course you ☺
Hi there Farmer and everyone ☺
Good to hear from you and thank you keeping us up to date it's good knowing how you're going.
You poor man doing such incredibly long hrs working. Good on you that takes a lot of stamina
And your poor wife's having such a rough time too. I hope that gets sorted soon. Quite painful I've heard. Please send her my best wishes for a good recovery.
You must be incredibly tired Farmer which added to a highly stressful situation would no doubt be creating more pain and frustration.
Matey I really do understand how the thoughts bombard it's terribly hard to not give in. I'm sorry you're going through so much pain. If you can keep thinking about the farm and your loving family and know your determination will see you through Farmer. The main thing is not to give the bad thoughts any power. As soon as they come immediately dismiss them as not an option then tell yourself why you want to stay. We want you to as well good man ☺
One day at a time matey. You really are holding up incredibly well.
Sending thoughts and support to you and your lovely family. Loves very powerful it helps us to get through.
Wishing you the best outcome for court too.
We're so sorry to hear that you've been experiencing such dark thoughts, and can hear how mentally draining all of this must be for you. You've shown so much strength in reaching out here to your friends on the forums, and please know that our supportive community are always here to help you through this really difficult time. We also think it might really help to talk through these thoughts and feelings with a kind and understanding counsellor at our Support Service (1300 22 4636) as well as our friends at Lifeline (13 11 14) and Suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467) who are all here for you 24/7, as often as you need during overwhelming times like these. You never have to go through this alone.
We hope that you can find some comfort in the kind words and support from our community, and we hope you continue to keep us updated on how you're going, whenever you feel ready.
Hey there Farmer ☺
You know people say I can't imagine how it would feel being in your position.
I can imagine the hurt frustration and injustice but it'd be nothing to what you're feeling especially when all you're about helping people and giving them a better good life.
You have and are achieving this good man.
She's sadly one that's got serious problems and clearly needs intensive help which I dearly hope will result from this nightmare.
You've helped many people. I think you did the right thing fostering kids.
Just so awful what's happening.
Our lovely Sophie here has suggested good people that can help you with how you're feeling Farmer.
You know you always have here. We're close by and listening.
They're trained and might know of people that can help more.
What's so hard for you I feel apart from the obvious is the extreme lack of sleep and the fact that it's dragging on so long. Both these and your situation are bound to create deep depression. It's cruel what she's doing. So malicious.
I imagine it feels that nothings happening but thank goodness the lawyers sticking with you.
The first court is soon.
There's positive & forward movement.
Very difficult not just to throw in the towel matey I really do get it but remember friend if you do she wins and she's one that needs to be stopped.
I hold high hope that your lawyers going to with your help stop her.
Always wanting the best outcome for you and your family ⚘
Keep going Mr you've come way too far to give in. Believe you are strong enough to hold on because you are!
See you when you're up to it ☺ So glad you're talking here.