Hello Wifeymum, and welcome to the site.
Our own feeling about sexuality differs from person to person but it's strong and no matter who we see or meet, let's say at work, could mean some form of attraction, acknowledgement of their capacity to do the work, wish we were as attractive as they are, or have a feeling that's who we'd love to be with, even though we know nothing about them.
It could the opposite sex or perhaps the same sex only hoping we had the same talents as they do, and this happens even if we're married because sexuality is about your feelings, thoughts, attractions and behaviours towards other people, that doesn't necessarily mean you want to be with them, but it certainly hopes you are able to have a coffee together, then maybe something might happen.
There's no doubt that we wish we were as good looking as another chap or had their physique but may end there but sometimes the attraction is too strong, but you won't know until you approach her.
Best wishes.
Geoff.
