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I don't know how I feel anymore

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I know that I'm pan, but I don't really know what my gender is anymore.
I was confident that I was non-binary these past few weeks. I've had a three day long gender crisis before, but now I think it's happening again.
The boys in my class really aren't helping either. They keep commenting on how there's only two genders and that being non-binary doesn't make sense, because they and them are plurals, making me think about this some more. It's making me feel so pressured to be either a girl or a boy, but I don't feel like either.
Is anyone able to give me some advice?

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Welcome to the forums Sammmy .

Non Binary is quite broad . I understand feeling not male or female . lived that for many years before discovering the gender spectrum .

" The gender code " on you tube . Search for Luka its on her channel . 1 hour 57 minutes . This might help put things into a perspective that you can use . There are quite a few others there .

Be true to yourself , and relax . You may find label not that important to . Enjoy who you are .

Peace & love , Jo W