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Words say one thing actions opposite

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Feel like I am loosing sense of what's real or not. His words says he wants to make the marriage work but the repeated hurtful behaviour still happens. Things are getting worse every day as if I mention anything he would say I zoned out cause I heard it too many times. Then of course blames me cause I am the readon he gets angry and says hurtful things. If I know when to stop things would be ok.i don't know. I just don't know. Feel worthless and no joy anymore.
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Hi sdmara,

I don’t think I can help with any advice but just wanted to say I’m here to listen if needed.

Hope it’s all going ok today.