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someone is always on my mind
Hi Luke, welcome
I'm concerned about this line " she doesn't want to know me at the moment"
Why?. If she doesnt want to know you how can you see her without violating her space?.
The other thing is, "playing hard to get". I think girls prefer guys dont play games, tell her straight you are interested in seeing her to see how things go. Take flowers.
That my view. Others might think differently.
I'm afraid I don't think your hopes are realistic. As you know a relationship is between people who both want to have it.
You have said that you knew her a couple of years or more ago and have since threw the fishing line in the water ocassionally hoping i'd get a bite, which I take to mean you have attempted to contact her since without result.
You have also said she doesn't want to know me at the moment.
In the face of all that - if it was me - I'd have to say she had displayed consistently that she was not interested in me and further attempts at contact would not be productive, or welcome.
I'm sorry I cant give you a better picture of things.
We have spoken before on another thread of yours. Thanks for posting again and being part of the forums.
TonyWK has brought up a good point pertaining to "she doesnt want to know me at the moment" Flowers and the direct approach will show her where your heart really is!
Lukecalv said : " i do have schizophrenic symptoms and bad anxiety"
Luke, I am really sad if you have anything remotely resembling Schizophrenia as well as bad anxiety symptoms
If you had any of these symptoms, traveling to Melbourne and going to a jiujitsu comp while traveling with mates as an excuse to catch up with her wouldnt happen with these symptoms.
You are more than welcome to post back Luke and clarify your symptoms.
Be careful my friend
you got a good memory mate! 🙂 been a while since i posted on beyond blue. i've only posted things which are really bothering me, i don't like to get outside help unless i really need it.
yeah these symptoms started when i was about 21, i'd hallucianate and see big rottwielers run when they weren't even there.
To quote Tony "if she doesn't want to see you how can you see her without violating her space?"
To quote you "she blocked me on Facebook"
As heartbreaking and traumatic as it is sometimes the people we want to be with do not want to be with us.
If she has already made up her mind then going to Melbourne with flowers will not change it. It will make you seem like a stalker.
When we like someone we need to listen to what they say and respect their choices.