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Really sounds like you have your hands full at the moment! I would reach out to your family for support, i'm sure your mum, brother & sister only want the best for you!
You deserve better than this, people that will build you up, support you & love you!
Your partner sounds like he is toxic & out of control! As much as you need sometime for yourself I personally would be concerned leaving your children in his care with the accusations he has made about your brother & the harm he has caused you in the past!
Can you speak with your friend from tafe?
In my honest opinion, even though you don't see or feel it now you would be far better of with your partner out of the picture!
You deserve more!
You are worth it!
Sending you Love & strength!
Hey Jess and welcome
I think you already know that you're in an abusive relationship. And if it was that easy you'd already be out.
From what you're saying it doesn't sound like he lives with you?? Is he the father of your 4 children? What is he like as a father to them if so?
It sounds like you need outside help as well as family help. Counselling. And a robust "go" plan. It's impossible to reason with someone who threatens or commits violence. The only thing they will understand is the police arresting them and if necessary a restraining order made. Domestic violence is taken very seriously. But you need to call for help.