hi Mc, this is a very good topic to discuss, and I was also very insecure when dating the love of my life because I would always get suspicious for no reason at all, and told 'not to be stupid', I couldn't count how many times I was told that even when we were married for 25 years, although the last few years was when I was suffering depression.
The problem with being insecure is that it makes you become too clingy and this can in itself create problems but imagine what you are thinking and what is actually happening, I'm sure your imagination is much more dominant and when you look back you realise that it was silly to even think that way, because it didn't happen.
Insecure people can still feel unloved no matter how much they are told they are loved because your imagination creates unnecessary doubts, this will stop you from enjoying the here and now.
If you are constantly wondering what your partner is thinking is a quick way to anxiety.
If they say one thing then don't assume they mean something else and if they say nothing at all then don't assume that their silence means something else.
You need to challenge your fears and imaginations which I think you are doing, so write them down and keep them next to you if you need so that you can reinforce your security.
Make the most you can out of this r/ship it may well lead on to a permanent connection. Geoff.
