Hello tabab215,
Welcome to the forum!
Being a full-time home-schooling Mum would certainly be very time-consuming. Maybe your husband hoped you would be able to have goals and passions for yourself, outside of caring for your children. Do you feel that the relationship with your husband has become more predictable and less exciting? Do you two have shared interests and regularly have one-on-one conversations? It's possible that your husband feels that so much of your time and energy is spent caring for the children, and less than he would like on shared time as a couple. This may not be the case. If this is actually part of the picture, there is no one at fault. It's also possible that your husband is just expressing his opinion. This comment may not reflect your relationship dynamics in a direct way.
Talking calmly and openly to your husband about this matter is important. Avoid blaming or accusing him of being critical, and instead say that what he said confused you a bit. You could ask for him to explain what he meant, or to discuss it together.
It would be great to hear back from you!
Best wishes,
Zeal
